*Long post ahead* This is about the vacation which made my chastity more permanent and flr more serious. We were 1.5 years into our marriage. She already was aware of my inclination towards femdom and I was already locked in chastity. She had caned me a few times. But it was more fun n games and not the serious kind. But she was really always serious about my masturbation which she hated. Even before our marriage she hated me masturbating. She feels that it is like cheating to some extent. So chastity was something she also liked even though she was Vanilla. So we were in Goa for a nice beach vacation. We did not carry any of our toys or cane or bondage equipment since that's how she wanted the vacation to be. Just that I was locked in a Holy Trainer for 10 days now and unfortunately she had her 1st day of period on the same day we arrived in Goa. So I knew there will be no cumming for me during the vacation. 2nd day evening I was to take dip into the beach ,so she unlocked me, since dried salt from sea water would cause rashes inside the cage. We came back to our resort cottage and she didn't immediately ask me to lock back. She was reading a book on her kindle and I took the opportunity to go to the bathroom use her hair conditioner as lube and rubbed one off quickly. Unfortunately or fortunately as soon as I got out she went in to use the bathroom. The bathroom still had a strong aroma of her conditioner, she came back and smelled my palm which had the same aroma. She was fuming with anger. Out came my shoe laces and hers too. I was spred eagle face down on the bed. Both writs and ankles tied to bed by the shoe laces. And she got my belt. That was the first time my wife hit me to cause pain and wanted to actually teach me a lesson with the punishment and also that was the last time I was out of chastity unsupervised. On our drive back she clearly said to me that she felt extremely betrayed and doesn't trust me anymore with my masturbation. She said that she is really lucky that I have this chastity fetish, because from now on we will try to make the cage more of a permanent thing. Thats when she got serious and read a whole lot of stuff online about any possible ill effects of chastity 24x7. We tried 3-4 different cages since then. Im currently locked in a HTV3 with daily unlock for cleaning and 2-3 days a week overnight unlocked. But get locked back up as soon as I wake up. Release is totally on her mood and since last 3 months we have also incorporated strap on. It's been on a roll since then, we are getting more into the femdom aspects of things. Hopefully this continues and we keep bonding deeper and deeper.