Exhibitionism and chastity

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    I recently started talking to a new sub on another site, he was interested in chastity so I told him to join Chastity Mansion and give me his impressions of the site. He did so and said, "It looks like an exhibitionists site with the gallery".

    What is it about chastity that makes men want to show their bits to the world?

    Quite often when new members join the first thing they do is attempt to upload an avatar of their penis.

    This is my idea of what a locked male should look like :)


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    should I delete my profile pictures Mistress?
     
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    That's up to you. Are you an exhibitionist or not? :)
     
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    The concept of dick pics is not new. Some would argue men think with their penis, and thus the obsession. Or, perhaps they are proud to be in chastity and want the opportunity to show it off—there aren’t many places to be open about it afterall. I myself would welcome some more creative expressions than the straight up dick pic.
     
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    Are you including pictures of people locked up?
     
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    My guess is they want to show the world that they have taken the leap of holding back their orgasms and want affirmation in the same way men want an attaboy for doing the dishes ....

    I still don't get the allure of dick pics. I have female friends that have showed, shared, and described it to me and they know I am not a prude and experienced in life but it was disturbing to me.
     
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    I would agree that the percentage of locked dick pics in the gallery is rather high. Maybe I’m a rarity in that I realise that no one else is interested in a photo of my dick, so why bother to post a picture of it!
     
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    Because it is helpful have a pic of your device for people who ask about it. And, there is nothing like in vivo to demonstrate how it works.
     
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    I'm not a fan of pictures of locked cocks or people cross dressing, but to be fair, other than maybe pictures of KH wearing keys, I'm not sure what else should theoretically go in the gallery. The only value that part of the site has to me is that it keeps those pictures from polluting the other parts of the site. If that could be achieved without the gallery, I'd be happy to supply the napalm to burn it to the ground.

    On that note, I wonder how many people register, visit the gallery, go blind, then never return. An argument could be made that threads for posting photos in specific subforums would actually be better in that people are less likely to accidentally stumble onto a Lovecraftian horror. Of course, said thread would need to be heavily moderated to remove non-photo posts and you'd have people starting their own threads constantly, so there is a downside to that.
     
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    A picture of a chastity device is informative as is another picture if said cage in use. They give people an idea of what is available and sometimes offer solutions.

    Some pictures of penises may be informative in that they might explain what a particular piercing or insert looks like and how it has been utilised.

    But pictures of just an ordinary penis with nothign remarkable about it serves little purpose other than to demonstrate what when we are not talking about porn a perfectly ordianry penis looks like and helps some otherewise quite deluded people decide for themselves what size a rel life an average penis probably looks like.

    I have a few pictures of my own cages .... mostly occupied.. some empty and none of a naked penis in any state of turgidity ..... if they are offending no more than a minority on what is a chastity site I will leave them there for now. After all they are within albums only accessible by members and anyone looking in albums on a chastity site has a pretty good idea of what they might see.

    The idea of using a picture of any part of my anatomy other than perhaps a tattoo has never occurred to me before now and the concept still holds no appeal.

    I do imagine that for some people who have children or other potentially inquisitive people that might have with or without permission access to their computers may well be using CM like some sort of secure archive. In moderation that seems quite reasonable and probably explains why some photos were ever posted...... they being neither informative nor aesthetically pleasing.

    In a nutshell if you prefer not to see pictures of other people's genitals then youwould be well advised to not go browsing the albums on a chastity site.
     
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    I'm not interested in posting pictures of any part of my anatomy, for the simple reason that nobody would want to look at them.
     
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    Some quick thoughts:
    - proof of active participation
    - revealing a fetish in an environment one is unlikely to be ridiculed in
    - showing membership of a secret society in an anonymous way
    - being a show-off (anonymously!)
    - to echo Alceste & filltee: informative/educational; seeing how different designs might look/feel & how practical or impractical they might be.
    - to satisfy the curiosity of those who may be considering locking up their genitals. Or locking up someone else's.
     
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    Women can be just as bad as men!

    I have lost count the number of times I have seen female feet pictures on BDSM related sites, posted by women.

    Not every man has a foot fetish!

    However, pictures of penises in chastity devices is to be expected on a website dedicated to it.
     
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    Yes, that is exhibitionism.

    Is the point of locking them away so they get less attention, or more attention?

    I'm not saying photos should not be posted, I'm just curious about the reasons for posting them.

    Foot fetish is a visual thing, whereas chastity is more of a psychological thing.
     
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    It's this.

    If it was exhibitionism they'd show their faces. I very rarely check the galleries but if I did I would guess it would be all cocks and not many eyeballs.
     
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    It depends on the individual or couple and where they are and what their goals are.

    Someone just starting to explore this strange kink will have a different level of excitement, curiosity, and desire to share than someone(s) who has been at if for decades.

    Add that we’re all different and enjoy different things and I think you’ll find that the answer to what seems like a simple question isn’t so simple.

    For the couple into humiliation, I’d say the answer is a resounding no. To the FLR couple it may be a big yes. For the excited newbie single guy, a no, and to the .... well we can think of lots of different folks and things they may be into and why they would or wouldn’t want to share pics.
     
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    Psychological? With all respect Miss, that's spoken like a person who's never had her *very physical* erection taken away.

    Chastity pictures are affirmations of our sacrifice and are also educational about the functioning and effects of various cages, piercings, sizes, etc.
     
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    How about photos of males bending over with their cheeks spread?
     
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    Not my thing.
     
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    I don't have any pictures like that.
     
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    I had posted these at the direction of a former keyholder and left them as evidence. Please let me know if you prefer them deleted Mistress.
     
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    I think that may be more in line with orientation day at the county jail
     
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    Even if we decide that there is an element of ‘exhibitionism’ for some, it is done in a safe space where we expect to see chastity devices in action, and importantly does no harm. There is benefit to the one posting, and to those who want to view, for aesthetic or practical purposes.
     
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    Going into the gallery I have to hit ‘accept’ to an adult content warning. I don’t post pics but it’s interesting to see what other devices look like worn
     
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    That is why I added the "Accept" feature, in case people clicked on the gallery by mistake. Some things can never be unseen :)
     
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