Ever want to call shenanigans on someone

I disable my chat. Way too much of that BS on there, or weird guys asking for explicit details about my intimate life that i prefer not to share with a complete stranger.

 

I have a peek at there profile, gallery and previous posts, just to see how it all stacks up.....normally gives it away!!

Mini chat I tend to leave folks to contact me, I feel like I'm intruding if I strike up a conversation, but I'm a bit like that in RL!

 

2 viable options as far as I see it.

One is to back out graciously and mentally note not to bother with them in future, and the other is to enter their fantasy world for it's own entertainment. If you were to find it entertaining to create more and more absurd ideas and kinks to insert just for the fun of it then you could see how long it took for them to back out. Not that I would ever do such a thing.*

What I would never do is to call them on being fantasists openly in the forum - unless they were causing trouble in the open forum. Even then I'd be kind about it.

*My mother used to have a lots of cats, enough that there was always one litter of kittens on the go at any time, and these would be advertised in the local paper so often that there's was usually a Kittens for good homes add in most weeks. As a result there would be the odd phone call every now and then with a spooky silence, followed by a bit of heavy breathing and words to the effect of "Do you have a lot of pussy? I love pussy!"

To which my dear mother would respond with "Oh yes.... I like my pussy (cue more excited breathing) IN fact there's quite a lot of pussies here....but they do SHIT EVERYWHERE - and it smells awful, brown wet and runny, god it's vile picking up cat shit, there's one shitting now... etc.
Always good for a laugh.

 

Tbh - there are those who call people out on fantasy threads. We try to run as inclusive a thing as we can here, and along with chastity there comes all manner of kinks, from orgasm denial onwards, and we do our best to allow people space to discuss, play and explore their fantasies. If someone thinks someone else is just having a fantasy the sensible thing is to just let them get on with it. WHo does it hurt if they're writing crazy stuff on a thread on a chastity forum?
As long as it isnt underage oddness - what's the harm?

As Ms Jules puts it, life is often stranger than fiction, so if you're ever thinking - "No, you couldnt make it up", it probably isnt.

Everything else - let them get on with it. Space here costs very little.

 

I jump into chat several times a week but I won't feed, what I view as, others fantasy. You can continue to talk about it but, if there is nothing that I can contribute to teh conversation(s), Ill dismiss myself promptly.

 

The only time I get upset about the fantasists is when I see someone genuinely asking for help and the hystericals start giving lots of really outrageous and ridiculous advice.

I don't chat much, if at all, as I like to think about what I'm writing, not to make stuff up but to make sure I self edit and put things in as well written a way as possible. Also I simply don't know what to chat about! i keep my private life private and i don't want to risk 'outing' Elle because of her job.

And oh my word, if Elle's chastity arc led her to become a pro domme! I am not sure if I could handle that!

 

Whaaaat!?!?! Everything on here isn't truth!!???!? I agree with how you all feel, I'm tempted often to call bullshit on them or to encourage them to continue describing their outrageous fantasies that no woman would possibly be capable of just to see how crazy the fantasy gets lol. Was it @Nicoftime that described them as "one handed typists". I understand that this site is for everyone but when you're actually living the lifestyle it's nice when you know you're honestly connecting with others who are living that lifestyle too and not just trying to feed you a line.

 

I don't know if my mistress has logged in but one or two times since she joined, I'm going to ask her to log in to see if anyone has left her any weird messages.

 

HEY!!! What's wrong with She-Nanigans ??? That's what I call the playful tease sessions I provide my husband.

But yes... I do get your point. I have individuals all the time instigate chat with me, say a few compliments and then immediately ask, "Will you be my key holder?". I try to very nicely tell them that I am only interested in doing that for my husband as that is enough work and responsibility for me. I go on to explain that to be a "great" key holder, takes far more work and effort for the woman than is is required by the caged male. Then they will usually say something like, "Oh please... I'll do anything you ask me". Again, I respond, "No thank you". They continue on... "I'll be completely submissive and do anything you ask. I'll be perfectly obedient". Then I ask them to go away... (funny how few stop at that point--so much for being submissive, obedient and '...will do anything you ask'.

I don't really get mad or upset by their lies, I just find it entertaining how easy it is to see through their lies.

 

A few years ago I would have said FLRs and 24/7 chastity was a fantasy. Turns out I was wrong! However, the devil is in the details. Some of the things people post don't make much practical sense, or indicate that they have a partner who just happens to act like a pornodomme all the time. I suppose it's statistically possible, but...

 

giggle , it is a funny word. shananigans.

 

It's an Irish word. It means carrying-on, often with a dose of badness thrown in.

 

Where we use it with a dose of bawdiness thrown in!

 

I always try to give them a chance befor I just stop talking....as a women some messages can get pretty repetitive. Last weeks I got a message from a man who has been practicing chastity with his wife for something like 16 years but wanted my 2 months of experience advice and how his wife can cuckold him.
At this point I realized this was most likely a fantasy situation.
I get numerous amounts of perpposals to be a KH.
Lots of caged penis asking me how I enjoy being a KH.
And the odd dick pick.

 

Anyone sending unsolicited dick pics should receive a warning and any repeat offence should result in termination of their account. We need the female members of the forum far more than some idiot who cannot understand how vile they are being.