ever outed yourself?

Just outed my self yesterday sent an chastity with fake dildo attached, to an good friend of mine who is female

 

Have a weird night coming up on Saturday.

My kh told her best friend about the chastity device and the key around her neck very early in our relationship. I think she was needing some friend feedback and didn't know what to make of all this. She told her friend that it was a key to a lock on my privates. That since her last her ex cheated, I'm wearing for her to give her peace of mind. Her friend said it was sweet. Nothing was said about chastity or D/s.

That was last spring, they haven't hung out since, and pretty much just have some texts. She's married with children and doesn't go out much.

So back story done...Saturday her couple of friends and their guys are going out to the bars, and we are invited. The new key pendant I made her is pretty and nice, but her friend was already told earlier. It does a good job to those who don't know, but would be obvious to someone who was already in the know. Plus her new necklace isn't as long.

I am ok with it but will be my first time hanging out with anyone but her knowing about it.

Lol, I'm sure it will be fun either way it goes. Might be a lil embarrassing, but I can take it.

 

Sounds like a fun night in store!

 

Do you know and research or articles published in a medical or reputable location? My wife is a nurse interested in trying chastity for E.D. and wants to see data.

 

The most links to porn addictions and causing ED that I know of can be found here. https://yourbrainonporn.com/research-articles-and-abstracts
As to a study that says using a chastity device to cure ED? I doubt it has been studied in that manner. Some forum advise on the topic of using a chastity device to help cure PMO (porn/masturbation/orgasm) hypothesize that using a chastity device won't cure the porn addiction because the device is just another part or function of the porn created fetish and when the device comes off, you will find you are still addicted to porn. If you find better study links, please post them!

 

No research, just what has occurred with us. He no longer has a problem.

 

I was real close to getting outed yesterday. I was 24 hours into wearing a cheap Chinese stainless steel tubes and it was feeling pretty good ... just testing it out getting ideas of what works and what doesn't so that I can order a Lori and get it correct the 1st time as far as fit goes. So anyways ... 24 hours into it .. surprisingly, it feels really comfortable .. to the point I don't even remember it's there if my mind is focused on something else.

So it was an "Oh Shit!" moment when we went to Disneyland yesterday and I had totally forgotten to take it off. We stroll on up to the tram loading area and there is a huge security line and Metal Detectors.... and and .... security guards with metal wands patting people down .. "Oh Shit!" .. my heart skips a hundred beats . I kept my cool and had to just accept that this could be one of those days . damn.

Anyways we get up to the line .. I am pushing the kiddo in his stroller ..and as I am about to walk through the metal detector ... they wave me and the kiddo in the stroller through the side gate ..... and just let me walk on through .. no metal detector no wanding no pat down .. WHEW!!! Nobody found out .. and I am still sporting the device and 48 hours into it .. it is still surprisingly comfortable.

 

I think @Mistress Amanté and I are at a crossroads when it comes to outing in regard to chastity.

On one hand neither of us want harmful repercussions with work, friends, or family. On the other we are both proud. I think she's proud that she has someone so devoted to her. Proud that she has so much control, and proud that more than likely she has it much better than anyone she knows. I am proud of the same and more. I doubt any of my friends look down and see someone else's property, I do.

In the end I took the cowardly way out and left all of that to her. If she feels proud enough to tell someone about our relationship, or some of our intimate details (like most friends do at some point) then I am ok with whatever she decides.

To be perfectly honest I would love for us to meet people in town with similar interests just to be open with someone in real life other than each other. Secrets can create bonds, but it can also isolate. I would hate for her to feel alone.