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    Bec and I had to buy a new bracelet to keep her key on this evening. While at the jewelry store Bec was getting them to put the key on the new bracelet and the lady asked what the key was for.
    Bec just laughed and I said that they probably didn't really want to know. The lady just smiled and said with an answer like that I had to tell her. So I told her as calmly as I could that it was the key to my chastity cage. To our surprise she smiled even more and gave us a thumbs up and said what a great couple we were. Somehow I think she had already guessed as she told me I was very good for buying a new bracelet for my keyholder...
    what are the chances hey?
     
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    That's awesome!! My wife has brought it up at parties. Some people get it but most don't even ask LOL
     
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    I don't care much as long as I am not confronted with questions from my mother in law;-)
    For the record- I know that a handful of her close - non-work related friends knows about our lifestyle. But I am not sure if they know that Anne is more than a roommate,-)
    I have nothing to be ashamed of , and with my current setup with this perfomance enhancing cock ring, I can only expect vanilla guys to be jealous of me - LOL!
     
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    @Surrendered to Bec huge buzz when you told her I bet. Might have just been tempted to asked her about her domestic arrangements. Once you are outed and you get the knowing smile I would think your fairly safe especially with your wife next to you.

    @BlueEyes Quite a statement about the dragon I mean mother in law!

    That is definitely playing with a live handgrande with the pin out .
    The whole concept of telling your lovely wife , either , your worst nightmare (possible very big stick lol) or a real deep desire to have the matriarch know all about your naughty secret !

    Xx Wendy
     
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    yeah, it was a funny feeling telling her. I tried to be calm and tell her like it was no big deal... I'm sure the other sales assistant over heard us as he gave me a bit of a look-over as we left the store... maybe trying to see if the cage was noticeable? we were giggling like children afterwards at her reaction and obvious familiarity with the scene.
     
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    Hey Wendy
    Just to set it straight - I have not told my mother;-) I doubt she would ever understand, but yes I have more than hinted about BlueEyes conditions, and all of the services that comes along. I love to see the disbelief turn into envy;-)
    And for BlueEyes - I am sure he would love for me to declare it to the world:)
     
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    @DREWife
    Lol I am glad nothing got lost in the translation :))

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Well now all the girls at the Jewelry shop know.
    Bec had to get her bracelet adjusted and the manager and the other sales lady were there. The lady who served us the other day started giggling and telling the other girls that she knew what the key was for. So Bec then told the others as well. The manager just smiled at me and said "good boy". Then fixed the clasp and put it back on Bec's wrist. "Nice and safe now" she said to Bec.

    I wonder what the comments will be next week when I go get her a new anklet...
     
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    Aaaaannnnnnddddd now we are up to show and tell. Bec told her best friend and she wants to see what it looks like.

    Bloody hell :rolleyes:
     
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    Mistress outed me to her work friends one night via our video camera. She texted me and told me to go in a room where the camera was and pull down my pants to the camera.

    Now 3 of her colleagues know that Im in chastity!

    This was the second time after she shared pictures of Lucy!

    Oh well :)
    Regards
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    I hope Bec gives her friend the opportunity to properly inspect your chastity device.
    Rita
     
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    I'm sure she will... maybe I should warn her partner of what he may be asked to do in the near future :) or he can just find out the fun way ;)
     
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    I 'm sure her friend would prefer you let her give him a "nice" surprise.
    Rita
     
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    I was outed to my boss yesterday evening (with help from a site member here, which I agreed to)...my boss is fairly high up in the organization, a lesbian, pretty cut and dried woman...and was obviously shocked but so far accepting it seems (and has promised to keep it secret!). I have been staring at her across a conf. room table all day, and her at I. She has informed me we will have a more in depth discussion tonight over dinner. Twisting, very conscious of my cage today.
     
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    :)
     
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    The director of our Social Club outed Mistress Wolf and i to a couple of other members. This Social Club is Swingers, not so much Chastity or D/s Director commented "No, he's not available without her permission, He's a good sub."
     
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    My wife and I have been seriously discussing telling her older sister. I so want to. She came out of the closet a few years ago. It's my hope she will tell ALL her friends
     
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    I have been outed by my wife to several people.

    I outed myself though once. I was out at lunch and a woman was kinda coming on to me. We were chatting and even flirting a bit so I went ahead and told her that my wife keeps me locked in chastity so there is nothing could do even if I wanted to. She wanted to see it so we went to the bathroom in the back. I was more embarassed because I didn't even think of my panties, she thought all of it was great and made me stand in the corner with my cage and panties showing while she peed before we went back to our lunch. It was exciting and humiliating at the same time.

    My wife thought it was great that she laughed at my lacy panties.
     
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    the longer I am in chastity the less I care about who knows or sees it. I don't go out of my way to do so but its not something I am terrified about getting discovered. I also am not concerned with her telling her friends. I don't think she has or will but its not going to be the end of the world either.

    I rarely wear underwear with my device and at times have caught my fly down or seen the bars through my work out shorts. I am almost positive that some people have seen something at some point.
     
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    Yeah it's odd, but having someone know or see is less and less of a deal. It's like yeah, this is what we do to have a truly awesome relationship. It's maybe a little off the path of normal but honestly I don't care that much. If our friends knew it really would be much of a deal either. I'm trying to find a necklace for my Master so she can wear my key around her neck, but she doesn't want a metal one, but instead something leather or rope. Once she wears the key around her neck some people will definitely know. S'all Good'man
     
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    I've not been outed as yet, but I know for a fact she wants to tell some of our friends, the ones she thinks would benefit from trying it too. I'm really not sure if it's a good idea, a close friend/ally today can become an enemy tomorrow.Come to think of it, she has outed us once, and in an ongoing way. She see's a shrink to work through some past trauma, and she has told her about our D/s dynamic and chastity. The shrink thought the chastity and device itself were a fantastic idea and gave it professional approval.
     
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    I was at Lane Bryant trying on some new lingerie and since I was the only customer in the store, the manager came to the dressing room door and asked me to come out and model the new bra/slip for her, which I did. I was so excited about the lingerie that I failed to notice how my cage made an odd shaped bulge in the slip. The manager asked, "Are you happy to see us or what?" (Lots of giggles from the SA's) To which I replied that I would tell her about it in a minute. After getting back into my male street clothes (over my bra and panties, of course), I returned to the register where the manager and 2 SA's were standing and used my car key to tap on my steel cage and then I told them how I am in chastity for my wife/Mistress.

    They were completely intrigued with the chastity concept and asked lots of questions about how long I'm locked, cleanliness, keyholding, subservience, etc. I told them about CM and asked them to check it out and to google male chastity devices, etc as well. To make a long story shorter, ever since that day, whenever I go into LB, we always seem to end up discussing my chastity. I even took my old CB6000 to the store in a bag so that they could touch and feel. I may have created so new dominant interests as they talk about how to approach their hubbies about it! I now have several women who know about my chastity (and who now provide me with lots of discount coupons for my lingerie purchases!)
     
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    So what did the boss say?
     
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    Yes what did he say?.

    Do tell.
     
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