Ok I will set up the circumstances. Been caged for a week, and due to schedule hadn’t had any playtime in between. Needless to say I have been wanting her badly. I texted her that I wanted to sneak her away for a bit to taste her before I had to leave for work. I went to town on her and used my fingers as well and soon she said she wanted me to fuck her and asked if we had enough time. I was like uhhh yeah, I only need a few seconds. Then she added for her to cum...I said maybe? Lol So off I go sliding into her licketty split, and of course soon I had to stop. I started again concentrating on not cumming before her. She started pinching my nipples hard, hurt like the dickens, and seemed to do the job of taking my mind off the pleasure. I continued and got her to O. And when she did it was like I had. I didn’t get the feeling of orgasm, any fluid(I checked), or any pleasure remotely like an orgasm, yet physically my body must of thought that I had because my erection started to wilt. It was just like she stole my orgasm from me. She even told me I could cum if I could get her to cum again, but it was just like I had already done it and needed twenty minutes to recover(refractory period). She said your still putting your cage back on immediately. As I put the cage on it was plumper than normal but certainly not difficult to cage up. Still super horny and aching. What the heck just happened here? Lol!
I'm convinced that sexual satisfaction is as much a mental thing as a physical one. I quite frequently use a strapon on my wife and sometimes, by the time she has had her orgasm, I find I'm satisfied in just the same way as I do if I have had an orgasm myself. This feeling of satisfaction also lasts for several days much as it would if I had had an O.