Erectile dysfunction

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by krambus, Oct 20, 2015.

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Have you ever failed to get an erection?

  1. Yes.. I am impotent

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  2. No.. Never

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  3. Sometimes.. its happened

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  1. krambus
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    Confession time there have been occasions in the past when I've been with a girl but struggled to either achieve or maintain an erection. I'm curious how common is this?
     
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    I think a lot more common than most guys would admit.

    Funny thing when I first went to my gp and talked about my Gender Dysphoria I talked among other things about my sex drive and how I was sick of it.
    Definitely even at my age too much can be well just too much.

    She said if only you could transplant it she would have a que round the block !

    Xx Wendy
     
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    I love being impotent - it focuses on my feminine feelings not having something hard sticking out in my knickers.
     
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    Many many years ago I did see some suggestions that chastity might help combat ED. I never saw any follow ups to the claims though which is a shame.
     
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    i has a bit of trouble with that.
     
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    Its only happened a couple of times. For whatever the reason, but mine was probably due to my excessive wanking. I know that since chastity, when I am released this is not a problem. I rise to the occasion.
     
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    I've had some issues with it, but every single time, it's due to one of two things. The most common problem is that I'm just tired. After working all day, I can get it up, but doesn't stay hard long enough to make my partner cum or me either. The other reason is too much alcohol. I rarely drink, but if I get a little to intoxicated, I again have issues staying erect.

    My wife told me one time she couldn't wait for me to become impotent. It hasn't happened yet, but I know it's not far off. Since I've been put in chastity, I no longer have involuntary erections. It also takes far more effort to get myself hard than even 3 months ago. My keyholder, MDsh, has been training me to stay limp, and it's working. She says there's no need for me to have erections since I can't please a woman with my tiny dick. And, now that MDsh has me in permanent chastity, I'm not allowed to fuck or cum, so it doesn't matter if I'm impotent.
     
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    I wonder howm many others on this site are peased that they are now impotent. After all chastity prevents erections and PIV sex so the natural progreession from that desire perhaps is to become impotent. I know in my particular case I am extremely happy not to get erections or to ejaculate / leak any male fluids x
     
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    I used to have a high sex drive and at times it used to drive me nutz. Especially being completely bi ,just walking down the road oh he's nice coo would not mind her in bed. It was bonkers at times funny at others and sometimes I looked at meat cleavers with interest I kid you not.
    When I went on my ant -androgens nothing happened for 2 weeks . No changes nothing. 3rd week the testosterone spike hit hard, for about a week I was like a porn star . Funny at times trying to work with a hard on . Twice got sussed by the girls . As for the dreams OMG I did not know I even fancied half the people involved and some from years back !
    Then one morning nothing like turning off a switch, absolute bliss .

    So nice not to get distracted or waking in the middle of the night .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    I am 63 and wife 62. Both still going well. I can cum 10 X / Wk if I want, but less is more.
    Ss
     
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    Just goes to show what clean living and a good diet can do. :)

    Also the added benefit is plenty of hot sweaty fun good for your heart. More exciting than the gym or jogging. .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Never had much of a problem but some time ago I complained to my Dr so I could try some Viagra.
    The first time I took it I had a hard on that you could hang a wet bath towel on, just like when I was in my prime.
    So I guess what I am saying is you get used to what you have and forget what you had.

    Dianne
     
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    Oh, one more thing I do a out every 2 weeks: I express my prostate by using an anal hook with a ball on the end. I truly believe that it is good for my health to do this. Last time I had my annual physical my doctor commented that my prostate gland was soft and he said that is a sign of a healthy prostate gland. Of course he had my PSA results beforehand. My number was way below 1.
    Doc asked me if I wanted viagra. I am not making this up. I didn't expect my doctor to offer this.
    I replied that I didn't need any now, but maybe when I get older.
    Ss
     
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    Thanks for the replies, it's appreciated. Looks like as I suspected it's more common than people let on .
     
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    And for many it is caused by medication. I am on 6 different drugs daily and I think that 4 of them list loss of libido and ED as a possible side effect. In my case 5mg of finasteride daily neuters me very nicely thank you ;)
     
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    Oh yes 5mg finasteride will do the job nicely.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Between not being able to get hard (ED) and spewing as soon as it gets hard (PE), I have had troubles all my life. My tongue never goes limp, though.
     
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    All in all several very good reasons to embrace the love of chastity xx
     
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    I'm the same a lot of the time
     
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    I was a 34 year old virgin. 20 years of masturbation made it difficult to enjoy actual sex. Usually easy for me to get off 2 to 3 times a day with masturbation. More often than not, sex with my wife was difficult with inability to sustain or even attain an erection. Frequently unable to climax during sex. And then I started a succession of anti-anxiety drugs that added to the problems.
     
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    Where can I purchase Finasteride? I want my erections to go away!

    ereer
     
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    Hiya
    Not sure which country you are in.

    Either if you are going thin on top see your gp .
    Or its online and you are good never to cum again!
    Read everything you can find about this drug particularly the possibility of lasting effects even once you stop taking it.
    . Xx Wendy
     
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    I took it originally for BPH - that is why I get 5mg daily.
    Works well for me
     
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    And sometimes, it's better than getting hard, too.
     
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