Endurance/stamina training

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    weve done orgasm denial for awhile but when we do have sex it’s done sooner then she likes, she wants to do stamina training. She asked me to make a post and get some ideas. We don’t use a chastity cage btw
     
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    I have been locked permanently, more or less, for almost 4 years. I have no stamina left anymore and nearly cum while she removes my cage which is on very, very rare occasions. When she has allowed me to penetrate her we use Dr.Numb numbing cream and condoms (to prevent her from getting numb). I can’t feel anything and last forever. The only reason we stop is because I get worn out or she starts to get sore. I highly recommend this product.
     
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    We use https://www.promescent.com/ when she wants to have sex with me without me having an orgasm. Usually we apply a fair bit (5 or 6 sprays) and I wear a condom. Can't feel a thing. From reading about it, you could use a couple of pumps and only desensitize yourself, not fully numb. This would help with stamina. Also just wearing a condom will make a difference if you're not used to it. A third option would involve you having a lot of orgasms. With each one the next will be harder and you'll go longer. That one sounds the most fun.
     
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    I’m use to condoms and she controls when I cum still. She just wants to try to get me to naturally get better. We are talking of watching edging videos so long before being allowed to cum
     
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    #5 GoodBoy1122, May 31, 2019
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    Kegels


    I started doing them and noticed a difference. Typically coming out of chastity, I already have a decent erection in the works - now they are even better and I feel like I have more control. I can see way more veins than I did before and they are popping out way more now too. I am hoping to master this. If I can always hold out and avoid cuming, maybe I can be let out for piv sex more often, of course no cumming, but I hope I can piv in more frequently. One of the hottest things for me is when I am getting piv sex and not allowed to cum, then when I am reaching my limit, I use a vibrator on her while I am in her but not moving. Of course I'm also going down on her before, during and after the piv sex. mmmm

    I also found this video that had handful more exercises beyond kegels ... might be a little too much work to keep on this routine, but the kegels by themselves can be done anywhere any time and are easy to stay on top of etc. Looks like they are trying to sell something after the intro where they refer to a different link, but keep watching the video and you'll see about a dozen exercises to help girth, size and endurance.


    Is anyone else out there doing these exercises?
     
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    You can also try cream for hemorrhoids, they are free and makes you last a lot longer but try not to abuse of them.
     
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    I dont know if there is really any kind of stamina training you can do. As another poster mentioned, just the thought of my Goddess taking me out of my cage makes me feel like I'm going to cum. We do use a numbing cream, which works great, but it kind of ruins the mood when we need to stop what we are doing so I can apply the numbing cream. So what my Goddess discovered, was that if she goes really slow....and I mean REALLY slow during PIV, she will usually cum before I do. But everyone is different.
     
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    Have you considered incorporating extended edging in to your play? That would make you last longer.
     
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    Tantric breathing and energy exercises
    Really
    Check out the boom "urban tantra" it is very kink and gender fluid friendly
     
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    Also when my Wife allow PIV sex I am not allowed to move my hips unless she instructs me to which is only for a few strokes. She straddles me and moves but I must stay still and let her know when arousal gets too high so she can lower the energy
    No cumming for me ever allowed:)
     
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