I am a reluctant keyholder - the partner that is the subject of many threads here about how to get your wife or girlfriend to hold your key. I am trying but having a hard time being the dominant one. But I have found a way to satisfy my boyfriends chastity craving but I don't have to be the one to do the tease, games, etc which he wants. After reading about Emlalock I set up a session for him. I locked him up, put the key in a keysafe and then started a session for him. I did not look at the combination , so he really was locked until he was released on Emlalock. He complained at first, but I think he loved it. Apparently he was not sure exactly when he would be released and the time kept changing. He was not sure if his emla keyholder was male or female, but it did not seem to matter. I did enjoy teasing him more than if I had the key because I knew I could not release him no matter how hard he begged. For me this was a win and I think for him also. Probably not for everyone, but as a reluctant keyholder this works for me.
This is the most useful post I've read about emlalock (or similar sites). I am now thinking of making an emlalock coupon with instructions and giving it to my own semi-reluctant keyholder.
glad that it is working for you. I think that Mistress likes it sometimes just so that I am secured and she does not have to be the holder, all she has to do is enjoy what I give her.
I really like that idea. Had to of been very suspenseful for him being that you didn’t even have control and added the extra fun and excitement.
That's wonderful for you both. I love chastity and also use the emlalock.com I even found it fun to lock others on there as well. Great advice every reluctant holder/spouse needs to know. Thank you for this.
The biggest danger is accepting a session made by some else and not understanding what can go wrong. Very rarely pay Dom's wait for the unexpecting. Be sure the other party has no financial interest. Ask me also I can help you make a session to your taste
I have used Emlalock, and have not had any issues, BUT, there doesn't seem to be any support for it anymore. Another option would be to try the ChastiKey app. The Keyholder, by default, can be chosen by 3 different AI's. If that isn't your cup of tea, the app also has a Discord room, where you can talk to KH's and Lockees, alike. As is warned here, research and take your time when looking for someone to "interact" with. My very first KH was not at all who she seemed, and was reported to the owner, KevinCross. He's a great guy. Hope this helped, and good luck!