Emergency keys, and why I don’t have one

Cute story and I agree. If she has your keys and you are at a point where your cage fit is comfortable, then by all means avoid carrying one for yourself. Part of the thrill of chastity is knowing your KH has total control of you. Now if she was away and unavailable that might be different, but given your scenario I think She might the right decision. Good luck and thanks for posting.

 

A friend of mine lost his keys all together, and had to be cut out.

 

Having an emergency key does reduce the feeling of being completely in someone else's control, I agree.

The fanatasy that if you really wanted to get out and be told no and not have any recourse is hot. Lots of aspects though can reduce that excitement - like knowing you can pull out of a device or cut the device off or unlock it with an emergency key.

I got a PA to reduce that impact (increase the fantasy) that being locked isnt by choice. I also dont carry or have an emergency key for the same reason -Except when I travel by air when I need the key to get through security and lock in back on. That's when some numbered plastic seals come in handy.

Anyway, can definitely relate to how keeping the reality as close to fantasy help keep the excitement (and frustration) levels up.

 

I'm doubled locked by my wife. I have the standard small padlock that I have a key for in case I need it. She drilled a small hole in the stem of Jail Bird where the cage slides on and puts a plastic numbered security tag on me. There's no way to remove the cage without breaking/removing her security tag. So, I have the padlock key but it really does do too much with breaking that security tag. I stay controlled but if needed I could get out. Of course I better have an amazing reason for removing her tag without permission.

She keeps the tag numbers in her phone. I love seeing her security tag attached to my cage!

 

The device I'm in right now has a padlock, and my wife lost the extra key long ago. So there is just the one key and none for emergencies, which is fine. I have never had an emergency key, nor a need for one. Of course, I do hope she doesn't lose the one remaining key!

That said, I have never done air travel in chastity... yet. Recently I bought an HTv3 Nano just for this purpose, and the plan will be for me to be locked the entire trip (including security checkpoints) and to carry an emergency key in a sealed envelope.

 

We had a dilemma recently. My wife started out on a road trip with the kids leaving me behind. She hid my emergency key in my truck. I was to make the 20 hour drive locked and call her if I needed the key. I made it the whole way having to contend with rest stop and gas station toliets. Gross.

For the trip home she let me be unlocked. But now we needed to figure out a way to disable the emergency key. We decided to freeze it. My emergency key rest at the bottom of a jar of water in the bottom of the freezer....

 

I have never had an emergency key, madam has my key in her purse, and she keeps a back up in her safe in her bedroom, so I can understand your exhilaration at now being trapped in your cage!

 

I don’t like having one with me in my wallet but I carry one in case there is a medical emergency or if the scrotum burn became unbearable.

I have grown more and more comfy in the cage with the last few lock up periods and haven’t had any periods that I thought man I gotta take this off and readjust!

I’ll admit that the thought of not having the key would make it seem more real for me. Not that I would ever cheat because I simply wouldn’t and never have but the feeling of knowing I couldn’t even if I wanted to would be a little more comforting.

 

My Mistress is often away and, since i"ve had 2 prior heart attacks, there's always the possibility of medical issues that might require my being unlocked. Therefore, Mistress purchased a small, gold choker neckace for me, put the extra key on it and super-glued the clasp shut. That way, if absolutely necessary (and at the cost of a new gold chain), the necklace can simply be ripped from my neck to get to the key.

While this covers the safety issue very well, it also adds to my torment knowing that the key is always right there, but opening my cgae is so very far away from my control.

 

No emergency key here. I've never had one. I need to feel under my KH's control whether I like it or not, and the latter is not infrequent.

 

Well if she does you'll just have to file the padlock off

For air travel, well a padlock or metallick lock may still trigger the gates I suspect (I think they are tuned to a more sensitive mode than in other places), so maybe you should test it first (i.e. having your lock in the pocket to see if it rings, and the cage in your bag). Maybe a plastick cage + plastic padlock/seal is a better solution

 

Already have bolt cutters for this purpose. I purchased them after the other padlock froze.

The HolyTrainer is a plastic cage with a tiny "MagicLocker" that is probably no more metal than my zipper. I've read of several people that were able to go through metal detectors just fine.

 

No emergency key for me
That is how my Wife likes it (me too)

 

My biggest fear, honestly, is slipping out and not being able to get it back on because it's locked. So I have a key holder with one key and the other key is kept in a locked box to which she (only!) has the combination.

 

Some people would say that is a sign that you should be in permanent chastity.

 

Great idea.

 

Since I'm a bicycle commuter I do have an emergency key.

 

We have drifted into the no emergency key zone too...may have to revise that dunno yet

 

This is my emergency key..I have to send a picture on occasion to show my wife it hasnt been used.

 

Sealed in a homemade metal tube with a numbered plastic seal to keep me honest

 

they in Mistress handbag I think.

 

What would happen if She lost the only key? Would you be trapped forever? We don't have a spare, we are using a conventional padlock and threw the spare away, I like that my Wife has the only key. But if it were lost or in an emergency i could buy a hacksaw or bolt croppers to cut the padlock.

What would you do? Would you have to visit the original manufacturer in person to be released?

 

To begin with I was always given an emergency key when I was travelling for business. Partly this was because I was allowed to remove the cage before passing through airport security, on the condition that I re-locked once I was air side. The other reason, as others in this thread have mentioned, was to avoid any situation where the cage was causing serious discomfort. My Mistress has always said that chastity is not about pain. If she feels I need punishing with pain she has far more effective and traditional ways to achieve that.

Now that I have overcome my concerns about passing through security while locked, one of the reasons for the emergency key has been removed, and as the cage I wear has never caused serious discomfort (the application of more baby oil rapidly reduces any pain that might arise) the second reason is also obselete.

As with others in this thread, I much prefer to be without an emergency key. It reinforces the reality of our FLR, and her loving control over me. However the remote possibility of a medical emergency requiring removal of the cage suggests that travelling with a key would be a sensible choice.

I would never cheat, and my Mistress knows this, but she is also pragmatic about the small risk of an event occuring which would require uncaging. So to that end she is investigating lock boxes. The other option which I had not considered until reading this thread, is the use of plastic chastity locks to secure the key from use, other than by cutting the plastic tag. I will discuss this with Miss A when I get home.