Earning your cage

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  1. Crowned
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    I thought recently about how this all started and I am wondering how many here began on the honor system? We began this way until my KH was confident that I could go awhile without cumming and be trusted. Once we moved to enforced chastity and found the right cage, my KH said she knew the first night I slept comfortably in my device that I was going to be wearing one regularly.

    In the end, my KH wanted me to prove that I was serious about accepting my loss of orgasms before she wanted me to wear a cage. I had to earn my cage through showing her I could accept being a chaste husband.

    Did most here end up earning their cage?
     
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    I think you're probably pretty atypical. True many prove that they prefer chastity, but usually with the aid of a cage from the start. Glad you persevered to get one.
     
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    We have been on the honor system for several years and are just starting to look at custom cages.
     
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    Trouble is, most of us just aren't honourable! :)
     
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    Can’t most people cum with a cage on anyway?
     
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    Cage came first for us. At first the duration of wearing was measured in hours so it was really more of a sexual toy than a true chastity device. I'd say I earned my way into longer term denial via my attitude improvement.
     
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