I'm having huge problems kicking myself back into the Dominant role at the moment. I think a lot of this has something to do with the fact I no longer see myself as a Domme on a daily basis. When I was really relishing the role I would make the effort to wear my best underwear, skirts, boots, etc and felt sexy... at the moment I'm in this horrible student/mother rut where I appear to spend most of my time dressed in jeans and a sweatshirt and then fall into bed wearing a t-shirt. (Sorry if I'm trashing people's dreams here!) I have GOT to find some way to incorporate my Domme self back into my clothing. I can't tippy-tap around Uni in high heeled boots all day (its a vast campus and I can't keep up with my peers!) and I need to find that fine line between smart and overdressed. This question is primarily aimed at how the Dom/mes dress and how they feel, but I would also love to know how subs/sisses feel about what their Dom/me wears (I won't tell them... don't go all shy on me!) HEEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!!!!