Downsizing and long-term cage wear

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    There are plenty of posts on CM singing the praises of small cages. Many of these cages look great.

    The biggest problem with a `small’ cage (relative to your flaccid size) is wearability for long-term chastity, by which I mean for this post, the ability to wear them a long time (several weeks or months) without any removal at all. I started out, ten years ago, in a metal device with a cage portion of 4”, a bit longer than my flaccid length of 3 3/4” (the advice at the time to leave some wriggle room). As I became used to wearing a cage for long periods (months) without removal, I downsized twice, to 2 3/4”. On the infrequent occasions of releases, I noticed that my erect penis was still about the same size, no significant shrinkage. Lastly I was placed in a 2” device, and erections are now completely stifled, but the device is very comfortable. The open (JB) design means it can be washed daily and, with careful drying, worn long term. Part of wearing such a cage long-term is psychological, being able to tolerate no erections etc. It seems that the slow adjustment over a decade to increasing time duration and decreasing cage length has made possible my current confinement, both with skin toleration and mental adjustment. The downsizing seems to have nothing to do with significant penis shrinkage, more just physical and mental toleration.

    What are the thoughts and experiences of others regarding going to a small cage long-term?
     
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    My cages have gotten more snug over time. I crave the feeling of being held. And to have even the slightest arousal gripped in response. You start to feel naked without it.

    I’ve not shrunk or lost any function, except for my stamina. I’m just as long, thick and hard but I’m very sensitive and lots of fun for her to tease and play with.

    I find a shorter cage more comfortable. I think the only big issue is if you’re folding up skin too much and you can’t or don’t keep clean and dry. You can get skin problems otherwise.

    Also I think I learned that my flaccid grower penis isn’t that large as when I first measured for chastity. I must have still been excited.

    One thing I’ve noticed is, my cock is smallest when I’ve just finished a long cardio workout. Perhaps the penis shrinks smallest when it thinks it’s going to be knocked about from running. I’ve dreamt of a scenario where I’m fitted for a cage right after.
     
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    We use small cage chastity when my wife/KH wants to prove a point or for some behavior modification. When I have failed to please her it’s a punishment period, or when she wants to tease or have a self serving sexual experience it’s considered experimentation. We use the Bon4M for most days and when reduction period begins, we use the Bon4M Micro. The longest I have been in the micro is 4 weeks, most sessions she designs last 1-2 weeks depending on her mood.

    if punishment, she will chain me to the wall and change the device to the micro model. At the end of the 2 week cycle, I will be milked for relief and not pleasure. If she is satisfied my punishment will end and I will be allowed to clean up and use the medium cage.

    if she wants to play with one of her girl friends, she will put the micro on me, have her girl girl night of fun while I am tied to some piece of furniture to watch. Each night for the rest of the week, she will tease me by kissing me, hugging me while parading around the house in a sexy outfits. At the end of that week, she has me pop a viagra and an hour later slowly removes the cage so we can have an intimate evening of fun. After we finish, the medium size cages are used.

    Since I have gotten older and use blood pressure meds, I need viagra to perform. Erections are not like they use to be, but either cage works well and there have been no long term effects using a smaller cage. A viagra pill does make getting the medium cage off, but the micro is even more of a challenge. Some days I wish I was younger to have experienced a long term attempt at an erection pushing at a cage.
     
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    Mrs Edge is horrified by those nubby cages because they look emascularing, and I have to agree.

    We mainly used the original CB3000 for most of our 20 year practice, although I've modified them a bit over the years. For me, the length and "feel" was good, and for her it looked and felt natural.

    After experimenting with various Chinese steel devices, I settled on the A272. It's a little shorter, and a little narrower than the CB3000, but the feel is excellent. And Mrs Edge likes it because it's more like penis jewelry. She can't imagine me wearing anything else right now.
     
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    For me a snug fit never was about psychological or mental effects, but about comfort.

    I am an extreme grower and getting even half erect in my first devices hurt a lot. With devices that will not allow growth in width that is completly different. Preventing any erection right from the start and always keeping the penis in a soft state they are really comfortable.

    Looking for a small cage I would make sure though that he is not too short. For me this only resulted in getting erect behind the cage and pulling him away... not comfortable either ;)
     
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    I went from a short cage to a very tiny one. As I'm quite small when flaccid, an extremely short cage was a better fit. Also, I sort of embraced the emasculation aspect of not presenting a noticeable penis. It is a bit harder to keep clean for longer wear, but it suits me best.
     
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    I have got a teeny cage but thats cos I have got a teeny willy as well and I dont care care now. I am as well bris but that make it better in my cage I think.
     
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    Downsizing for the longer term does seem to take time and training. A smaller penis seems like a satisfactory goal for many who are held in strict chastity, even though the stories in this thread indicate more mental tempering, psychic and skin preparation and maintenance, than actual shrinkage.
     
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    Just downsized today base ring and length gone from a 48mm ring to a 45mm and 80mm length to 65mm feels nice and sung again think you just get used to wearing a device must say going smaller dose feel more comfortable let see what night time brings for me
     
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    I love the a272. If there was a ring size between 40mm and 45mm it would be perfect!


     
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    I found i get on much better without a cage,
    The device I wear is a single par that holds a urethral insert in place.
    i suppose it would be classed as a "short cage" device in that there is no room to grow at all except laterally.

    I know that insert devices aren't for everyone and it takes some time to get used to but it's much lighter than a cage and much more hygienic.
     
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    I too have a tiny willy. I have used one that allowed some expansion and was not comfortable at all. My primary one now is metal and it is long term except for proper cleaning once a week.
     
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    I started off with the old time. CB3000, and had the same problem needing a ring between 1-3/4 and 1-7/8. I eventually made one.

    The 45mm is closet to 1-3/4, and I worried that it would be too small, but it ended up being almost perfect: a little snug in cold weather, a little loose in warm weather. I'm tempted to order a 40mm just to see if I can wear it in the summer.
     
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    In my perfect world I would rotate cages for each situation.
    -current cage, uses my piercing and best for security and long term wear...to wear while at work and whenever we are apart.
    - micro cage, allows no erection or plumping up, less secure, less comfortable, harder to keep clean, to be worn while with her.
    -play cage. A bit more roomy, allows semi plumping up. To be worn if she wanted to tease or have a play session that involves a bit of torture for me.

    This of course isn’t very realistic, she barely lets me out of the cage now, I doubt she wants to spend time swapping cages every day. Plus it would require a certain amount of effort and decision making on situations that would be too much of a hassle and not very spontaneous.

    I would love it though. I actually love wearing my micro cage, but can’t wear it long term because I need to wear something in my piercing, and that doesn’t work with this cage.
     
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    It's too bad that there isn't a micro cage that works with your PA. Personally, a very small cage represents the best chastity device for many of the reasons you listed.
     
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    I would love to be able to wear a smaller cage, but I just Carnt go smaller, I squeezed into a cb6000s, and my cock just went blue in minutes.
     
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    Don’t get me wrong, my normal device is pretty small at 33mm, but my micro cage is 28mm and hugs it a bit tighter and I can’t feel anything. Wish I was a welder, would just weld the PA pin to the cage and it would be awesome
     
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    Yes, I'm real lucky to be so small when flaccid. I can fit in very small cage for long periods. But each person needs to find what works best for them,
     
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    For me it’s not the cage length that makes super short bad for long term...that part fits fine, but it forces the trapped balls to make constant contact with the cage, which ends up trapping urine, sweat, lube, etc.
     
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    You should be able to clean that up with a bit of alcohol. Just be careful not to get too much on the balls, it creates a burning sensation.
     
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    Yeah it can be done, not real practical though, and even if it’s cleaned...it’s too much skin on metal contact with no breathing, and problems turn up. One time I had my micro on for a bit over a month, everything seemed fine, no pain, when the device was off I saw a huge raw spot...and then there was pain!
     
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    Do you know what caused the sore? Was there a sharp area on the device?
     
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    No sharp area...sack constantly in contact with cage and not being able To breathe. Warm plus moisture, minus air, equals bad for living tissue
     
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    It is interesting that I never have that problem. It could be caused by a sensitivity to the material in the cage.
     
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    Last evening at our play session, wife had me tied to the bed spread eagle. In this position, its all about her riding my face and having orgasm after orgasm until she can't go any more. After she finished, she unlocked my cage and I thought I was getting lucky. Next thing she jumps off the bed and comes back a few minutes later and gives my cock and balls a whack. Next thing is a quick lube, a bag of ice, and the forcing of the micro on my cock. Once she has it locked she gets everything together and leaves the room. I am still tied to the bed while she walks into the bathroom and takes a shower.

    When she returns to bed, she tells me the "ladies club" who are 4 in total have decided all of us are going into reduced cages until we all meet next Saturday evening. There will be a contest and the winner will get placed back until the following week contest. Also, they have decided to extend Lent 3 more days until Tax Day the 15th, that day bring back bed memories for me.
     
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