What Did I Do?! During our first opportunity to play over the past 2 weeks, as she was nearing her O, she told me to cum....and I said that I Didn't Want To! I think I've lost my mind!
Yes I agree with @Rectrix you have been disobedient and should be punished. But also it depends on how committed you are since you said this shocked you not cumming or wanting to cum is New to you. This can also be more of your move towards submission , your KH still thinks you need an orgasm but over time this may change that she’ll not ask or allow you the opportunity to cum. Chastity and committing to an FLR relationship takes many many steps. This may just be one more of this steps. You should be punished for your disobedience. Good Luck.
He wrote that he said he didn't want to, not that he didn't. He's allowed to express his opinion. If she revised her order taking into account his opinion, that's her right. If she insisted, he refused, then pulled out and ran away, then yeah, he was disobedient. For some reason, I don't think that's what happened.
She didn't ask if you wanted to cum, she demanded that you do so, Lost your mind cause you said no, or cause she said to cum and you rebelled. Once spoken her authority outweighs any thought you have, her command was for you to cum not give counter request.
My Wife(KH) has asked me if I wanted to cum and I have said no...More than once...When I have said no, that's it. No second chance, back in the cage. Back about a month ago, she told me to cum and I did. She wasn't touching me and I was tied up. Just started to cum on demand. It was quite the feeling...It was during a T&D session...
Fun comments! We are still working on the whole process. It was more of a way to tell her that at that point, I was still ok with her pushing the denial longer. 15 days is our max so far. After she was satisfied, she promptly pushed me aside. We are still trying to work on her being "meaner" to me, which is hard, because I am so damn good to her to begin with, she wants to reciprocate.
It is interesting the term "meaner". So many think that it is mean to hold us back. I have found that I enjoy the lead up to no. I never question if She wants me to cum, it's not very often and I never know when. You may want to go longer, but if she is the boss let her decide. You never know when that may change and three months go by before you get another chance. Enjoy the time together and leave it up to her.