Double Loss of Virginity and Advice Needed.

If you've gotten used to other forms of sex, other than PIV for 7 years, then you may find penetration a bit of a let-down. You may also find that it's over quickly. With me, I've become really sensitive, and now have trouble, where I used to have no problem getting my wife off via penetration. I can't imagine if I'd been 7 years chaste before our first time! Give the actual sex some time, we put so much importance and pressure on PIV, it may be too much for you, or it may be a let down after such a loooong wait. Either way, give it time. Things we imagine for years, often aren't what we expect when we finally get them.