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  1. Clearstatic
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    Clearstatic Any reception yet?

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    Just want to dump all this out on the forum because I just need to tell someone.

    I'm pushing 175 days locked. (2 day unlocking for air travel).

    My wife. My wonderful, beautiful wife had really made this dynamic her own. She does remind me that this is my game, my idea. But she is playing the game very well.

    Back in may when things got serious, she still unlocked me for piv. Six months later we have a very nice vixskin dildo she has named "willie". I can't remember the last time we had piv. She's starting to prefer Willie.

    We found out she really likes being challenged. I try to push her buttons at least one time a week. As a result I have been:
    Tied up in a cold shower
    Tied up on the couch for the night
    Plugged and clamped folding laundry
    Gagged with panties strapped into my mouth while folding laundry.
    Complete denial.

    She found out I can orgasm in my cage and gives me timed sessions to try and masturbate supervised. She runs my nipples and tries to distract me with talk about mundane things. I orgasmed in five minutes. Last time she only gave me two and I didn't make it.

    I bought her a heart key MCN offers with their old security screws. MCN now offers a new security screw with a carbon one off bit. Not decorative in my opinion, but she took one look and tell in love. Mark was able to weld a loop to the bit and she wears it every day on full display.

    She has a friend that is kinda into the femdom stuff and has actually shadowed a pro domme. She has told her about my cafe and knows I'm always wearing it.

    We are going on a trip for our anniversary. I booked a cabin upstate with a boat slip. We are going to do some hiking and take the boat out for lake side dining. She wanted to book something that was full service, but there were not many options open in our time frame or location.

    So she told me that I would need to take care of the house keeping and breakfast duties. Enter my button pushing.... She threatened to make me be the "maid" for the weekend and was going to buy me a maids outfit to wear... I told her there was no way she would, she's all talk.

    Well she opened the maids outfit in front of me by mistake...

    I'm not really into cross dressing or maid stuff. But it's not a hard limit. These are her ideas. This is huge.

    I'm a happy guy. She's a happy lady. We are a happy couple. A year ago we were on the verge of separation.
     
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    Not fishing for arguments, eh?
    (Congrats!)
     
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    Looks like it's working out very well for you. You are very fortunate to have a wife who is into chastity and D/S dynamic, so things will only get better from now on.
    So, my sincere congratulations!
     
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    Good luck to you both, seems like you have a good thing going
     
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    Enjoy your adventure. Sounds like you both have found what works for you.
     
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    @Clearstatic

    It is great to hear that you both found something possibly saved your relationship. I feel closer to my spouse now than ever, before I was more focused on the events and the journey; whereas now, she is my only desire.

    It's isn't about what we are doing anymore, it is more so about doing it with her.
     
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    It sounds very special Clearstatic - thank you for sharing. Anyone who makes it into triple figures locked up gets my utmost admiration and so lovely that it's mutually enjoyable for you both.

    Interestingly my KH loves that the MCN key isn't a key in the traditional sense. She says it's a good way to tell it apart from all her other keys. And hopefully that means it won't ever get lost too!
     
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    Congratulations on your ongoing journey! Just sit back and enjoy!
     
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    Clearstatic Any reception yet?

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    Just found out how arbitrary locktober is for me. Last night she told me to fold the fitted sheet for our bed and put it away. I neglected it when doing laundry. I hate folding fitted sheets. I usually just ball them up. Or leave them for her to fold.

    I refused. She said if you fold the sheet properly I'll unlock you for an orgasm. Oh! Ok! I made my best attempt and she said it wasn't good enough. Unfolded it and made me do it again. My next attempt also not satisfactory. My last attempt wasn't the greatest either but she let it pass.

    She gave me the key and I quickly unlocked ready to have sex. Why are you getting in bed she asked. To have sex I said, duh. I didn't say we are having sex, I said you could have an orgasm.... Go stand in the bathroom door way face me and masturbate.

    What? Huh? You want me to masturbate in front of you? Yes go on.

    She got a real kick watching me jerk off. I finished on the floor and she had me clean it up with a rag. Told me to watch myself or I'd be licking it up next time. Then I promptly locked back up.

    She said the only way I'd be getting a full orgasm in the future is supervised masturbation only.

    She sent her friend pictures of me trying to fold the fitted sheet. Just laughing away.

    Who is this woman??
     
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    Would love to see pictures of the MCN heart key and the specially loop-to-bit necklace Mark made for you. Pretty please?

    Supervised masturbation is what we masturbators deserve. We've been robbing our wives of our attention for so long, masturbating secretly, shamefully. It's right of her to bring it out in the light, to make you show her, to make you confront your masturbation. I identify as a masturbator so I would understand accept if my wife made the same decision.
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    Good for you! I believe male chastity/female KH can truly help relationships. Ours, too, was going downhill until I was locked up almost 4 years ago. If we keep talking about it, maybe someday it will be "mainstream" enough to become part of marriage counseling
     
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    Clearstatic Any reception yet?

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    The heart key is setup for the old screw style. She never was fond of it. I bet mark could frankenstein the heart key to the new bit.

    She loves the new bit for some reason. Way more than the heart key.
     

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    Thanks.
     
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    Amazing! Don’t fuck it up! Lol
     
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    Is it maybe that the new bit looks like a small penis with no balls so in effect it is the key to her penis
     
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