Does your spouse know you post details of your sex life online?

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    #1 Cincy, Nov 15, 2018
    Yes, my wife knows, and is fine with it, as long as we remain anonymous. She even told me I could post all the kinky stuff we do.
     
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    #2 Joey love, Nov 15, 2018
    Nope
     
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    #3 Giles_English, Nov 15, 2018
    Yes. I wouldn't do it otherwise.
     
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    #4 Love&Passion, Nov 15, 2018
    She knows, sometimes I read her stuff from weeks, months, years ago.... She doesn't give me much feedback on it and is not interested in looking anything up.
     
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    #5 Gigaman, Nov 15, 2018
    Yep she knows. She even has a
    An account here and is verified female. Just goes to show you’re strange thing to happen. She was a real vanilla girl until a couple years ago.
     
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    #6 Ma’ams Slut, Nov 15, 2018
    Yes and she is on here . I don’t think if she was not on here I’d be allowed on here! She is the boss!
     
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    #7 Guest 3729, Nov 15, 2018
    When I first started posting after starting Chastity she didn't know I was detailing our sex lives in my blog. I started to feel it wasn't right to do without her permission so after my first so many posts I emailed her the link to my blog. I was sitting next to her as she was reading everything we'd done up that point, her facial expressions were priceless. She fell in love with me writing about our sexual antics online and gets excited to read my posts after we have sex. Me posting about the control she has over me and how it makes me feel boosts her confidence as a domme.
     
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    #8 Maid Denise, Nov 15, 2018
    Yes she does . I tell her every thing I posted or she can read it.
     
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    #9 Dumb1, Nov 15, 2018
    Unfortunately no my wife would certainly not agree to me posting anything but if i had not sought the reassurance from others who shared my kinks i would surely have given up years ago and we would both have been the worse for that. if she were to ever show signs of being more open to posting online i would certainly then be totally upfront but i cannot see it happening.
     
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    #10 Nicoftime, Nov 15, 2018
    She used to come here, but stopped, just not really in to social interaction with others about this.

    I do have a blog on Wordpress and an account on tumblr, they are synced up. My blog started out with just her following me lol, but now get about 1200 views a month. She gets an email notification when I post and usually responds with a like or a comment.

    My blog is a bit more descriptive of my state of mind, feelings, and activities. I started it at first to be able to document our journey, and inform others that are starting. Now it’s like a barometer of my state of mind. I can vent, and express myself with more detail, and she can know exactly how I’m feeling without having a D/s discussion constantly.

    So yes she knows. Sometimes she will even text back saying how turned on she is by reading it or express her viewpoint.

    I think I had a vision of her getting into the social aspect of this, and getting more feedback by reading her advice/answers/questions to others, but is perfectly happy doing this solo and choosing her own path.
     
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    #11 madams-sissysub, Nov 15, 2018
    Yes madam knows, I let her know all I post, and she does tell me to post things some times, she was on another forum years ago with me, but got board with continual messages from time wasters.
     
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    #12 Robinoh, Nov 15, 2018
    No. She doesn’t. I’m not sure how she’d view it either. She’s very vanilla and only marginally accepts chastity. I wish she’d join me here tho. There are so many great people with great thoughts and ideas that I believe she would see my kinks and desires in a whole new light. Maybe someday....
     
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    #13 harddenial, Nov 15, 2018
    Yes she knows. She told me that "chastity" in the title of CM could be interpreted as meaning just "no intercourse" whereas what she likes is that AND no ability to masturbate or orgasm for the male. Sort of a rename to Chastity+ Mansion. Lol.
     
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    #14 Breathe, Nov 16, 2018
    Yes, he does.
     
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    #15 henry58, Nov 16, 2018
    What sex life!:lockkey:
     
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    #16 Unlucky, Nov 16, 2018
    The only people in chastity without a sex life are those whose partner is basically abusing them by sexually abandoning them. Helping your partner have sexual pleasure be it via your tongue, fingers, toys, penis, or whatever, is still having sex, even if the guy doesn't orgasm or get any stimulation.
     
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    #17 henry58, Nov 16, 2018
    Each to their own, but i think you miss the point sometimes.
     
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    #18 Maid Denise, Nov 16, 2018
    You should have her chat with fellow KHs. That way she can hear for herself the advantages of being a KH.
     
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    #19 Maid Denise, Nov 16, 2018
    I agree he is missing the point of being in chastity.
     
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    #20 Robinoh, Nov 16, 2018
    I’d love for her to do that. She has zero interest tho. How would I get her to do that ?
     
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    #21 Unlucky, Nov 16, 2018
    The point of male chastity is to put control of the man's penis in the hands of someone who can be more objective about when it should be used. That can mean protracted orgasm denial or not. It does not mean completely shutting down the man's sex life though it could mean he never uses his penis again. Male chastity cannot work long term with a partner who doesn't keep him engaged. That's energy that needs to be focused and directed and cannot just be ignored. Locking up a penis doesn't make it go away.
     
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    #22 Guest 3729, Nov 16, 2018
    That's been my experience so far with my Miss in regards to the social aspect. I'd visioned/hoped she'd be here as much as I am making friends and offering/taking advice. She chooses to go it solo as well but that hasn't stopped her from creating her own successful path in our lifestyle. Sounds like Mistress Amante has things wrapped up pretty well for you too lol.
     
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    #23 filltee, Nov 16, 2018
    I have not and would not discus online or otherwise any aspect of my sex life with my current partner that could possibly identify her. I am prepared to discus some aspects of the same with previous partners but I have and will continue to keep any identifying details anonymous.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #24 Nicoftime, Nov 16, 2018
    Weird, I was just about to post her date of birth, social security number, and mothers maiden name...I suppose that would be “wrong” huh.

    I’m pretty sure no one could identify her from whatever we do in the bedroom.
     
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    #25 jemima, Nov 16, 2018
    im not allow to. so I dont
     
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