Does your KH ruin you before or after PIV

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    My wife aka KH loves watching me struggle to not cum in her while we have PIV sex. But she also enjoys hard sex with my penis. Which she can't get because I'll cum in 5 seconds if I fuck her hard. My question is should she ruin me before or after PIV. Before of course let's me fuck her hard since I can last longer. After means she can enjoy watching me struggle to not cum in her pussy. To those that have done both which is better for her? I guess it depends on her mood that night thou. Any thoughts.
     
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    Isn't the answer going to be "whatever she is in the mood for tonight?"

    I think a ruin followed by a denial during proper sex would be a heck of a challenge for most.
     
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    Seeing as it is her decision I find it difficult to push for a ruin before. It might put her off sex altogether if things don't progress naturally, it spoils her headspace. We are looking for that "coming together" experience and chastity is a blessing and a curse with that respect. I need to learn control even if I'm really sensitive, and try to hold out till the right moment. We've discussed the ruin before before, but it will take time to come to terms with for my wife.
     
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    You might want to consider a good quality delay spray. I suffered from premature ejaculation even before chastity play. My urologist suggested a product called Promescent which I now swear by. I can still feel her when I am deep inside, but can proceed at a more natural pace. She likes because cumming together is our preferred outcome, and with this product that happens almost every time now.
     
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    Numbing cream and perhaps double or triple condoms might help :)
     
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    When wifey wants PIV, i sometimes take so long with my limp clitty cock she just sometimes just pushes me off and says, "you're going to have to wank your own clitty cock, pass me my wand "
     
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