So my wife and I love chastity mostly for the T&D aspect of it. She gets off on knowing that I'm not, so when I lock up she loves to send me nude photos or various porn clips. When we're playing around she loves to lick my cage and vibe me to cumming in the cage. She seems to enjoy this almost more than classic sex which is fine by me because the build-up is amazing! How much has T&D played into your chastity lifestyle? Does your KH love to tease, or love to keep you in suspense? My KH is crazy excited to start p-spot play and milking even though I'm a little apprehensive but I love how into the whole kink she is.
My wife is vanilla. So not a lot of T&D. Some of the kinky stuff scares me, quite frankly. So I guess I'm thankful? But she does know how to use tease and denial if she wants to ...
My Wife(KH) loves T&D. She will tease me to the edge and leave me tied up and wait until I come down and then start all over. She enjoys seeing me horny all the time and thinks it's funny when she gets me to leak by just teasing me. When she tells me she thinks it's time for me to get tied up, I know I'm going to be teased until she has had her fun.
She likes to tease and deny me. She loves control, and keeping me desperate and frustrated. She is quite good at it, well at least from my point of view.
My t and d is in the form of nipple play and vib plug. My key holder loves making me get off on it. Not that I am complaining.
Mine too. While she definitely enjoys many other aspects of chastity, and T&D is by no means constant because of everything else going on around us (work, kids, etc.), there is no question that she gets pleasure, including sexual pleasure, from knowing that I am not and cannot. She is a sadist, and I am a masochist, and it’s quite nice for both of us.
My wife really isn't into t&d and doesn't even really acknowledge that I'm caged, but every once in a while will throw a curve ball and tease me for hours at a time for a few days, then back to nothing at all.
My madam loves it! She loves teasing and teasing me till I’m completely worked up, and then just stops! She also loves just ignoring it completely!
My wife doesn't love it or hate it, she just doesn't do it. All she wants is that it's locked so I can't use it. So she locks and just forgets about it.
I believe the term she uses is that edging is her "bread & butter." She enjoys it tremendously, and if she's edging me it typically lasts, well, I have no clue but it's like forever x6
Like a few others who posted, I am in the camp where tease is just my hope for a release one day and denial is the fact that day rarely arrives.