Does make chastity make you feel more homosexual thoughts?

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    Somewhere read, the more a man is away from sex, the thoughts tend towards homosexuality over time.
    Read in some article.
     
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    Not sure you have more thoughts just that you will take any relief.
     
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    it got me watching some how-to-do-this videos and i may get erect at the thought but no. A better way to describe this feeling is curiosity like a doctor observing surgeries and learning how the body works and all.
     
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    I definetly find that when I am locked up and or denied an orgasm for extended periods that I think about cocks alot more.

    I find that when I am caged I want to submit alot more. I feel like I want cock cumming in my mouth and pussy while I am locked and dripping without an orgasm. This is especially as my Mistress wishes to watch as I am used by cocks.

    I still do not consider myself "gay" I just find that I would be much more submissive and if this means sucking and being fucked by cocks then so be it.

    As soon as I get to orgasm I find all the desires disappear and I want to stop it all again.

    Basically I can't be trusted to have a proper orgasm, I should be caged permanently and that way I will be a good sissy slut who would serve his mistress and as many cocks as she or a bull desires.
     
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    I am a bi guy but I don’t think it has increased my “homosexual thoughts or desires” at all. If anything has changed I would say I like the feeling of push even more.
     
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    Absolutely NO!

    Anal sex with my wife ok. Anal sex with other women (strapon, finger) ok, anal sex with a man is not my thing.

    I can't imagine it, my wife doesn't demand it either.
     
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    I find that chastity and denial make me so horny I become much more pliable and hetero flexible. Chastity makes my submissive side really rear its head. Like "ok, my cock is caged? Well I can still give pleasure to whomever! When I'm horny and locked, I want to taste anything and take any kind of stimulation.
     
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    I am exactly the same, so easily turned on during these times, and so open to new desires and fantasies
     
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    I know this is an old thread but wanted to share my thoughts.
    When I was in school back in the late 80’s and early 90’s I had times with my male friends. I told my now girlfriend/goddess after I told her I like to have balls grabbed hard and wanted to be in a cage.
    mot took a while but now in a pink cage for months.
    When goddess is really in the mood she loves to remind me that I want and need to suck a cock and then forces her strapon in my mouth. As I choke she reminds me it’s what I am.
    Then she gets me to beg her to do me hard in the bum. I always do.
    At first I was upset but knew she was in charge.
    Now I know she is not trying to change me but I am bi and would love to do what she keeps saying so she can watch a real man do me as she uses my mouth or just sits and plays.
    I really am a dirty little sissy at heart but honestly love her so so much too.
     
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    My take on this is that although I'm not bisexual or gay, I am aroused at the thought of being told to perform gay sex acts, either symbolically with a dildo or in real life with a play pal.

    Of course this is out of the question for my Mistress who has no interest in making me do this things however I suppose eating vast quantities of my own cum is pretty close to a gay act without another man involved.

    Cuckolding is also borderline bisexual since you are witnessing or consenting to your wife with another, not to mention clean-up.

    I think that I would characterize it as edge-play? is that the right word?

    I'm not sure.

    All I know is that I long to be ordered to do taboo things for Mistress.
     
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    I’ve actually been thinking about this thread for a long time because I’ve wanted to submit an answer. In the short, yes chastity does make me feel more sexually liberal and makes certain sexual scenarios more appealing. I find the two main things I’m attracted to are femininity and sexual scenarios. To explain my attraction to femininity I simply mean that as far as the human figure is concerned I’m really only physically attracted to women. However this goes a little deeper… I’m also attracted to TS women, CD’s and sissies who can really pull off feminine. If I were a single man I would feel comfortable dating TS women, CD’s or sissies as much as dating genetic women. The fact that the latter have penises isn’t a turn off for me in fact I like it. Now I don’t mean to group TS women with CD’s and sissies I’m just purely pointing out that I like and am attracted to the feminine appearance.

    When I saw my first dominatrix via the internet and the things she liked to do to men I became completely enamored with her. When I saw her put on her strapon and pound her male sub into submission I was in love. Venturing out a little further into the universe of porn I discovered TS/TG porn. I found porn with TS women dominating men and that was like omg I want that. So I was obsessed with dominant TS porn for a long time. That is until I started chatting with some TS women online and they made me understand how that kind of porn is nothing but a fallacy because most TS women if not all want nothing to do with their penis. In fact most want no attention bought to it at all. What I did learn the more TS women I met and spoke to about this I really just came to see them as just women and realized that most of not all “shemale porn” is bullshit.

    Now going back to the “scenarios” that I’m attracted too… I completely see where @UnownedSwede is coming from. I have watched and become aroused from certain bdsm gay porn but it has to be pretty specific suck as lots of leather and latex with a heavy D/s dynamic. For one, I could only ever be a bottom, the thought of trying to get hard and use my penis on a man would be impossible for me. In fact I have zero attraction to the male form. Sure I can tell the difference between an attractive male and an unattractive male but I am not attracted to men. Now going back to the scenarios I was talking about… being a master’s slave or made to be his sissy and being used for his sexual pleasure is attractive to me. But I would have to be locked in chastity and there would also have to be lots of leather, pvc and rubber attire involved for it to work. I would not be into vanilla sex with another male, it would most certainly have to be heavy on the bdsm and D/s. Just like unownedswede said if chastity wasn’t a factor I doubt I’d be interested.

    Recently I was approached by a bull who mentioned not only interest in my mistress but also myself. I had thought a lot about cuckolding since starting chastity but as for right now and maybe forever my mistress isn’t interested in making me her cuck. Shes very happy with how our relationship is going on top of us being way to busy for anything like that in our lives. And truthfully I am too but it’s fun to fantasize especially when you’re so horny lol. When I showed my mistress the message from the bull I laughingly said “looks like this guy wants you”. Wonder Woman read the message, snickered and said no, he want to dominate you with his cock while I dominate you with a rubber one. Hearing my mistress say that to me turned me on like you wouldn’t believe. I was super embarrassed that I’d become so aroused knowing another man wanted to use me to pleasure him. The bull and I have been chatting quite a bit back and forth and it’s been fun, enjoying it probably more than I should. Again, if chastity wasn’t a factor I wouldn’t have reacted the same, but nevertheless those feelings were really there and a part of me. I’m also in my most stringent lockup since we started chastity 7 years ago and that has brought up a lot of feelings too. I’ve been locked up for longer periods now than I ever have and with less physical attention from my mistress because of how busy we are. We use chastity to keep us both excited even though we have almost zero time for each other right now. In many regards she is truly the only person I’m physically attracted too.

    So I wonder if the homosexual feeling/thoughts could be argued in a nature versus nurture type situation. Certainly some people flat out have homosexual desires for the same sex and it’s just ingrained in their brain whereas maybe someone who considers themselves straight or is more straight leaning can be trained and desire a same sex encounter when the situation is just right jyst like whst I described? Just some food for thought…
     
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    Not the chastity (cage) itself but the high sexual energy. It is the same whether Im in chastity or on honor system.
    I dont know, at least yet, how much of my fantasies Im actually willing to do. And it is not males Im interested in, more like wonderwomanssub wrote TS, etc. Although I could fantasies about some males and their penis, it is however only when combined with my Lady dominating my to do it - therefore the dominance and not the male Im curious about. "alpha"-males turns me completely off sexual.
    My Lady and I have talked about these things and she tells me that we might look into some of it. For now it is "just" a strap-on i have to suck, but who knows.... she might just mind fuck me (and ofc I like it).
     
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    chastity make me feel more submissive. Maybe more girly. But girly in a way of been sub. With men only by order of mistress and in a act of sub not because I like men
     
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    I am bisexual and always had an attraction to men but didn't sleep with money in my past. But when I'm locked up as anybody that's locked up gets hornier and hornier and honestly after about a month I would probably crawl on broken glass to go just blow a guy. When I'm not locked I don't have that sudden urge. It's hard to say if it's only homosexual thoughts because I crave serving a woman as well but I always have you know what I mean I don't know if there's more of a craving or just that craving. I hope that helps
     
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    I'm not gay and I'm not attracted to men but when I'm aroused and kept denied I start to fantasize about being forced to eat other men's cum or be penetrated by a man.

    I am in no way attracted to men though.

    I think it's more that I get off on the humiliation aspect of it because for me, gay sex is a taboo for a straight guy.

    It's funny how we are wired in this world.
     
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    For d last 6years in ful chastity.. my only pleasure sexualy is providing pleasure to my wife oraly.. n nothing more.. if she thinks its pleasurable to have me providing sexual favors to her male acquantances.. i think i would oblige.. i know of many men asking their best frends to ‘take care’ of their wives when they r not ard.. its d reverse in a flr..ok in tis case would b a submale- male relationship.. im nvr fond of anal sex.. but i do wish if i were to suck a dick off as ordered by my wife for her pleasure.. it broadens my submisivenes as to just being locked.. locked n ignored. She has not done so. Does tat make me gay..? Im not sure.. mayb 40%..
     
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    Being submissive, dressed in fem, and locked, I desire a strong dominant person. I think humans always want what they do not have, so having no assess to the cock makes a sissy want one. For me the male would have to look very feminine, but strong, and desire to take a sissy for his pleasure. It is only a fantasy while locked and edged.
     
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    I never thought about being with a man until I was put into chastity. Now I just love it!
     
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    Nope, not even a little.

    I love women, their scent, their soft delicious curves, their lips, eyes, smile, everything about them.

    Men are the opposite of attactive for me.

    Sorry chaps.
     
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    The longer I am locked and denied the more I enjoy nipple and anal pleasure, but only from my wife.
     
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    I think more about penis when I have been locked for a few months...Mostly my own...My Wife(KH) will make me watch porn where the men are being forced to cum and teases me by asking if I would like to have a orgasm. Which I know isn't going to happen. She will say thing like, "Look how nice that looks", "bet you wish you could cum like that" or "remember when you did that". it's all a big turn on to see those men getting a release and knowing it's not going to happen for me...
     
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    When I was being denied for a while. I encouraged my wife to make me eat my own ruined orgasm. It felt really naughty but not really gay. More just humiliating.

    She even watched me do it a couple times which I really appreciated.
     
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    For me I find zero attraction to another man, butt I love butt stuff so I do enjoy being fucked by other men. I equally enjoy my wife/Mistress putting things in my butt.
    My wife loves having me submit to other men and since it turns her on it turns me on more.
    Whatever makes Mistress happy, makes me happy
     
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    I’ve never been attracted to men, being locked up and super horny doesn’t change that for me. In fact I find it hard to understand why women are attracted to men, lesbians make total sense to me.

    But I do feel more submissive when locked and desperate to give pleasure. I can feel quite satisfied by being allowed to go down on my Goddess.
     
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    I am not sure if it is the chastity or the cuckold or the feminization, but I must say when I am involved in all three and see that lovely cock satisfying my wife, I do want to feel it in my mouth or my ass. if that makes me gay, so be it.
     
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