Does make chastity make you feel more homosexual thoughts?

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    Sometimes after doing this for a while, locked start to become the default, and unlocked penises look weird.
     
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    I never had thoughts of sucking a cock or being fucked until I went into chastity. Now I am equal opportunity, guys or girls!
     
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    This thread is music to my ears!
     
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    For me it's just brought out my submission for my wife kh. Helped me understand on more of a mental and emotional level how much of an ass I could be towards her. New we are happy and I think before I speak and treat her with the up most respect and understanding. Another thing it helped me come to terms with is how we keep it a secret as much as possible and telling people about it is hard for them to understand or comprehend so now I guess I have an understanding for gays/lesbians an trans how they keep it bottled up before being comfortable telling people. And I know that's not a kink just saying today's me didn't understand what yesterday's me didn't comprehend.
     
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    Well, like, im all Gay, all Day!
    So, no.
    What it does to me is make me sexually needy all the time.
    Only an orgasm can relieve that kind of pressure, and i cant have an orgasm while in any cage that i have tried out,
    so the effect is like that old country song with a twist, All Men Get Better Looking At Closing Time!
    And the longer im locked, the lower my limits becum... become!
     
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    ...Interesting, but I dont understand!
    Though why not...?
     
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    Yes, it does. I'm now the slave of a man. I doubt I would be if I wasn't in chastity
     
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    Looks like you need a profile name change perhaps! ;)
    So the question being Does it make you have More homosexual thoughts, do you mean that being in service to a Master is more homo on the queer scale?
    i am assuming you were gay to begin with, correct?
     
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    No, I was straight as an arrow. I think I still am. But it's a matter of definition. Back when I had regular sex with women, I hadn't any homosexual thoughts at all.

    My gay fantasies are about being humiliated. It's the humiliation of getting fucked by a man that turns me on. I have never had romantic thoughts about men. I don't love my master now.
     
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    Beautiful. Thank you for being open about that. Its a remarkable thing to hear and i not only appreciate but am excited by your admission.
    May i ask, are you self locked, or has Master locked you down?
    May i ask how you found each other?

    i can relate to the feeling of humiliation triggering a desire.
    i have learned that am the same way. However my twist on the requirement is that i need to be Forced into humiliating acts, like getting fucked by a Man. Having sex is fun. Getting FUCKED is something else for me.
    There are many things i will do happily with a man, but those acts are usually by mutual consent, right?
    That's why bondage, BDSM plays such a large roll in my sexual gratification.

    There is a world of other acts, more extreme one might say, that i normally? wouldn't consider.
    Like being rough fucked in the ass; while locked in chastity; while tied to a bench; in a public space; in front of an audience; or being recorded; while being deep throated by a Man of His choice; blindfolded.... to recount one such event.
    my face was burning with embarrassment, my eyes streaming tears, snot everywhere,
    and i had an orgasm.
    At the time i was confused and thought, shouldn't i be disgusted with myself? And you have cum shooting out your caged dick you slut?
    But i came to understand that my nature is to service Dominant Men as a submissive bottom boy toy.
    Now i look back on it with nostalgia and want to relive it over again and again.
    To the rest of the world, I lead, I plan, I work, I decide.
    But not with Those Men.
    (the first time He dragged me to the bar in my ponyboy gear i pissed myself from fear. Fortunately it was outside and everybody thought it was hot except me...)

    One point though.
    You may not love Him now.
    But He is satisfying a deep need in you.
    Your feelings for Him are likely to change.
     
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    I am self locked in the sense that I always have access to the key. I'm pretty active and do a lot of sports. I also don't sleep in chastity. I wear it when home, even alone. So that I don't touch myself. But my master has the control over it. He decides when it goes on or not.

    I found him on Grindr. I have met a lot of men over the years to scratch my humiliation itch.

    I also need to be force. Me and my slave call all our sex "rape". To underline what the dynamic is. I've told him that if he ever asks for permission or cares about what I want it's over between us. I need to feel the force. He fucks me whenever he wants.

    But at heart he is a big softie. Very caring. So it took a while before he truly understood what I need sexually.

    Since I'm in chastity when we fuck it's 100% about his pleasure. Which is important to me.

    Right now we're living together and I'm pretty much his housewife while he fucks other guys. It's a weird dynamic. But I like it. At least I'm not jealous of him meeting other guys
     
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    To be honest yes ,I fooled around a bit when I was younger with other men normally bought on by drinking
    But have been married for over 25 years but with the introduction of chastity some 10 years ago and my wife's biggest fantasy me been with another man it has just re ignited feelings I had years ago ...my wife is just fueling the flames so to speak much to her delight and mine
    Happy wife happy life;-)
     
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    May i ask, why not sleep that way as well? i know it bothered me at first, not being able to have night erections, but if you are always locked at home at other times, what makes the sleep time worthy of being unlocked?

    Force in our chastity context is very understandable. i was first put in chastity by force myself. But i didn't have the key.
    You and i are a lot alike in many respects.
    i need to be TAKEN and He needs to TAKE sex from me by force in whatever way He wants. 100% about His pleasure, just as you say.

    It appears our difference may be that you are straight and i am gay.
    But the rest of your situation is very familiar, and makes me feel envious!
    i am very happy for you!
     
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    Its very painful for me at night. I sleep badly as a result. I've endured three days of it until I gave up. I just can't do it. I'd like to but can't.
     
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    i had that same problem. Ive heard that most of us do.
    my solution was...
    a smaller cage!
    Believe it or not!
    The worst cages were ones where i had almost as much room as i had cock.

    Once i got into a 'stub' cage where i only had no more than 2 inches of room, the problem stopped. There isnt enough space to allow Any kind of expansion and so since erections are not possible, neither is there any pain.

    May i ask what your device is?
     
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    15 to pick from. Makes me feel like i am not trying hard enough! :)

    Very handsome! my current one is from them also.
    It is like this, but im going to send for a new one. The one i have does not have this nice a finish:
    https://www.dhgate.com/product/fact...LIST...018E|0|0.#s10-32-1;searl|3775420647:33

    i really prefer the urethra tube also. It keeps my penis more under control, especially at night. And it is not as messy while peeing.

    They have some stubby models with cage heads and tubes that i am looking at as well. Like this:
    https://www.dhgate.com/product/new-...h.LIST...018E|0|0.#s11-6-1;searl|3166431419:7

    i like Short, Tube, Steel, high polish. Cage or not, i dont have a preference right now. Integrated lock too.
     
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    The topic diverted from "Does make chastity make you feel more homosexual thoughts?"
    To cage designs and links
     
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    I have a fairly large penis, which complicates matters. I'm quite limited to what I can use.

    That's why I have so many. I'm trying different ones.

    I also got a tailored one from Mature Metal. It's great. But I still use the cheap Chinese one more. A better fit
     
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    You always want what you do not have.
     
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    No i dont think so.
    Establishing Swedes' background of multiple devices, knowing that he is not homosexual, and yet has a live in male sexual relationship that requires forced fucking in chastity for his own satisfaction, answers the question.
    Its a beautiful thing. :love:
     
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    I do feel genuinely violated if a man plays with my cock and tries to pleasure me. At that moment I couldn't feel more straight.

    While rape sex turns me on. Even getting gang banged by several guys in both holes is super hot.

    When going on dates with men I always wear chastity the whole time. Just to make sure my cock isn't touched. I don't go on dates any longer, because I have a master. But I did when I did
     
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    No.
    Unless you consider being pegged by the wife or butt plugs homosexual?
    After a week denied I would love to be pegged by my KH.
    So. Very probably still a No
     
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    Since being feminized and caged by my wife/Mistress over the past 5-6 years, I find myself thinking and feeling feminine most of the time. Therefore, I think it's a natural thing to dream about being with a male and servicing him. Those thoughts have been planted in my mind, over the years as part of my being dominated and humiliated for my femininity by my Mistress (which I love!)

    Having been an Alpha Male for most of my life, Mistress gets enjoyment out of humiliating me for my feminine thoughts, dress and mannerisms and thus, as part of Her domination of me, She has proposed that homosexual activities should be part of my future. Having now been trained to overcome my gag reflex. I feel ready for the next step in that direction.

    All of that being said, I feel that I think so much about guys and penises more because of my feminization than because of my chastity.
     
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    Chastity makes me super submissive the longer I am locked. I think about serving women and men. I do think about giving them total pleasure however they desire. So yes I do think about cock while locked :)
     
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