Does having a small penis make you feel less of a man?

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    If you do have a smaller penis, it should make you feel less of a man. Just the truth. Sorry boys :(
     
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    OH FINE=====> Yes and Yes. But I have never felt like much of a man anyway. I am 100% weirdo. I am thankful I am not typical. I guess at this point why not add a category to profile pages where you can post your measurements. Might be great actually, someone buy me a neosteel arch eh?!
     
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    I have quite small breasts and no it doesn't make me feel "less of a woman".
    Actually I think I prefer this to having big flappy heavy long ones.
     
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    less likely to have saggy titts later!
     
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    This is ridiculous. There is no truth in this statement at all. The measure of the worth of a man has nothing to do with the size of his penis. It is in the way he treats his friends, his wife, his children and himself, how he treats the world around him. Even someone like me who has issues with their size realizes this. This is the same as saying that someone with issues about their weight should feel less of a person.
     
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    Sums it up @Jasmic68 :)
    In days of yore when the codpiece was on show it may have mattered, possibly?

    Picking up on the "What film have you just seen" thread, I think LaLa Land might be in the running ;)
     
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    I always wondered my stature, yet, I wasn't worried about my size. I always found being a "man" was more about providing and how he treated a woman. I try and "provide" at all times, show my wife I am in love and devoted to her at all times. I think that will go a lot further than just being a big dick.... there is more to a relationship than just sex... case in point we are locked in chastity and you still love your women. of course they are wired a bit different.
     
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    Hmmn. Like another poster here, I have the benefit of being 6'3" on a good day (when erect) though was bullied as a kid and consequently it took me a while to realise that my physical stature was enough for me not to worry about what anyone else thought.
    With that said, I've always been a bit of an odd-ball and like Beck, am very glad of it and have never seen myself as much of a man's man. Dislike organised sport especially team games, and not in any way would you think of me as macho.

    What is our notion of what is A Man? What is Manly? What pastimes do Men do?

    Lets describe him. Burly, 6'2, fair hair, a sports man at college but now works in logging and wears boots and a checked shirt. Drives a truck, and smokes Marlborough. Is suspicious of people that go 'on holiday' as relaxing is for sissies, if he ever takes a break from work it's to go into the woods, competing in some form of motor-sport or spending a week in Vegas.

    If that isn't you, then you are clearly either a child or a woman.

    ;)
     
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    Some of us prefer women with smaller breasts for this reason and usually women with smaller breasts are in better physical shape.

    As for the original question. Some of us don't see the size of your penis as part of your worth unless you're referring to sex. Then a small one is an issue as is too big.
     
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    In the same way one might imagine it could be possible to be considered too much of a man.
     
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    i don't want to be a man anyways so it don't matter really so i'm glad that my one is teeny.
     
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    If I was 20 now and I had the options that people now have, I would be doing something about that. As it is I am a happily married man to a woman who is happy that I am a man, and I am very content with that situation.
     
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    well that does not describe me and I know for sure I am not a child!
     
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    There's only one other option dude, er...I mean Ma'am. :D
     
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    My frustration and disappointment with my size is when I am flaccid. I tend to turtle up half of the time. Disappearing entirely to look like a little clit with a hood. Trying to live a chastity lifestyle is really hard to do when most devices fall off when I turtle. The lightweight holy trainer is the only device that mostly stays put with the tube pressed firmly to my groin. When the little turtle decides to show himself again he is usually lined up with the tube and slides back in. My wife doesn't want me to get pierced. A piercing would not work anyway due to my shrinkage problem, putting stress on the piercing.
    To clearify.
    My frustration and disappointment with my size is when I am flaccid. I tend to turtle up half of the time. Disappearing entirely to look like a little clit with a hood. Trying to live a chastity lifestyle is really hard to do when most devices fall off when I turtle. The lightweight holy trainer is the only device that mostly stays put with the tube pressed firmly to my groin. When the little turtle decides to show himself again he is usually lined up with the tube and slides back in. My wife doesn't want me to get pierced. A piercing would not work anyway due to my shrinkage problem, putting stress on the piercing. Has anyone else ever successful dealt with this issue?
     
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    My understanding is that distribution of nerve endings in erogenous zones varies much more between women than men. Rather than size wouldn't sensitivity be the more meaningful measure (if we even need measurements)
     
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    I used to be a very strong bull,
    Then Mistress caged me out,
    What used to be my sex appeal,
    Is now a water spout!
     
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    As an average sized man, I never have felt inadequate or small. However, when my mistress uses the Strapon, I notice the size difference and feel like less of a man, as well as when I am taking it, I think it amplifies the effect...
     
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    Size doesn't matter. I can be as big as 8" but it doesn't matter if i cant control how quick it goes off.
     
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    coo that s very very big.
     
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    To answers the original question ... Off course it does, its just a case of whether or not you agree with it.

    It doesn't matter if he can rewire a plug, change a flat tyre by the side of the road (in the rain) or even pop in a new light bulb, these things are naturally expected.

    Quite simply a man is always going to be judged by two things, how much alcohol he can drink and still stand and how big his penis is.

    I do have to wonder who is winning the battle of the sexes or if it has been already secretly won and nobody has told us.

    just imagine if more Women found their inner Dominant and learnt how to use it.
     
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    That may be true @Steviepie . I do wonder if you were breast-fed.
     
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    I have to admit though that a small penis tends to be absolutely unsatisfing when it comes to PIV.
    But then as we are all aware, PIV is not the be all and end all of sex. Not even nescessary actually.
     
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    Well put as always Mistress........I'm curious whether you might choose PIV for procreation or rely on more modern methods?
     
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