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Does having a small penis make you feel less of a man?

Discussion in 'The Pedestal' started by Mistress Lucy, Aug 3, 2017.

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    Is it only in the bedroom that you notice it or do you feel less of a man all the time?
     
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  2. I think I'm below average. Never had any issues in or outside of the bedroom though.

    Is neither an option?
     
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    Yes :)
     
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  4. Nope. I used to be 6.5" in my younger days and now I am smaller. Yet I still can bring my wife to orgasm in under 3 minutes. I kept two women sexually satisfied for many years despite not having intercourse with them. They never had sex with each other without me taking part but each had sex with me one on one. It is not the arrow but rather the archer.
     
  5. No, and no.
     
  6. There's your first answer then :)

    I don't have a micropenis or anything, perhaps if feel differently if that was the case. Seems like getting concerned about an extra inch in my pants would be about as useful as being upset I wasn't a couple inches taller.
     
  7. Yes. And it isn't even that small when I'm erect, I am bang on average. The problem is how small I get when not erect, and in changing rooms and showers at the gym I don't tend to have an erection! My Wife has been telling me for years she was happy with my size but I grew up with quite a severe complex about it and it's one of those things I cannot shake.

    It didn't help that I have had a few friends with damn pythons in their pants and they weren't shy about showing them off either.

    It doesn't affect my day to day life but I don't enjoy getting into situations like changing rooms at swimming pools with friends. I'm not too worried with strangers. Also as I get older I care less.
     
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  8. I've always been told by lovers that I have a nice cock. Has some decent girth and can be 5.5 - 6" on a good day...or when I was younger. It is certainly smallish when not hard though. Certainly a grower. Maybe in HS, just like other, I was a bit self conscience but not so much now I guess. Although I don't find myself in naked locker room situations like I did in HS.
     
  9. I would have to say yes and no . its just under 6 in but I stand 6ft 3 so it doesn't matter out of the bedroom . I do wish it was bigger to give her more enjoyment like she gets when I use the
    sleave or bigger toys with her . lol her strap on is bigger
     
  10. Unless you have the girth of a pencil surely you can't have had many complaints at six inches. :confused:

    I'm about 5 inches and haven't had many partners where there wasn't the opportunity for a repeat performance.
     
  11. I didn't say that I said I wish I could give her more enjoyment like when I use the bigger toys
     
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  12. No, not really. Of course, being a professionally trained sissy maid might.... :)
     
  13. I would worry about it I think. But I worry about everything.
     
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  14. Yes it does. It has my whole life. If I were a gay bottom it wouldn't matter to me so much. But I have a smaller flaccid penis than most infants, and it is very embarrassing. I have had few female partners other than my wife and had some pre marital gay sexual encounters due to my being passive about my sexuality. Chastity cages are usually too large for me. The micro chinese cages fall off of my nub. Thank god for my understanding wife.
     
  15. It is what it is. She has no use for my tiny penis so I fuck her with this.
     

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  16. Yes it does. Though I have never had any complaints about it. I am on the smaller scale of average.
     
  17. If a man feels less of a man because he has a smaller than normal penise. Does a woman also feel like she's less of a woman if she has smaller than normal Breasts? Is it the size of your body that defines who you are or your intellect? Just wondering
     
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  18. This is also my reaction to this kind of question.
    But I also think about other comparisons.
    Does having less water make you thirsty?
    Does having less money make you poor?
    Is this a math question?
    Is this a biology question?
    Is this reverse psychology?
    Does seeing men answer this question in any way empower you to feel happy that you are not a man? I would think so.
     
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  19. I'm quite fond of my tinky winky! Maybe not so confident when younger, but you kinda get used to it as you get older....
     
  20. I like your comment. It's a little confusing but maybe that's just me
     
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  21. Understand your point but it's not the size of your intellect that gets the job done in the sack. :D

    Unless someone is rocking a proper micropenis I don't really see why there'd be a huge issue (hur hur) in the bedroom. It's probably more about personal hangups the the lady in question having a problem.
     
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  22. Have an average penis (6 inch) but still sometimes i feel that it is too small and i wish it was bigger
     
  23. @Mash2214@Mash2214 It is confusing. Just like the original post.
     
  24. what is confusing? -the intent behind the question.
    I cannot tell if this post is a joke. maybe that is just me
     
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