i've wondered now, with all the submissives in chastity and the tremendous number of chastity devices being sold today, does chastity lead to long-term devotion, and becoming a sissymaid? based on my past experience before marrying Mistress, i found that many of the Ladies i dated were very serious about chastity and having their very own submissive sissymaid. to be sure, i dated only Ladies who were Dominant by nature. Mistress is, by the way, the only Lady i ever wanted to want me as Her maid. when i finally told Her this intimate detail about myself, She startled me by saying 'oh YES, i love sissymaids!!" and the rest is long-term 24/7 chastity and service, service, sevice within a loving but strict environment. but even recently some of these other Ladies approached me to see if i had become availble with the distinctive goal of marriage, chastity and maidhood for me... i also am an astorloger and have asked many Ladies if i could do their charts. of those who accepted to offer (About 200) i've noticed that certain aspects indicate a dominant personality. interesting! my point is, in my experience i've found that many Ladies desire this kind of relationship, and see it as a special kind of marriage. has this been the experience of other submissives here? thanks!