I visited a few pro domes who advertised KH services , but didn't find them interesting enough to suggest it . I had one time visits with each. Oh there was one I fell completely in love with ,but sadly she was only in town a week , and visits 3 or 4 times a year. Having attended many kinky meetings and been a member of several groups ,I always noticed there are 4 times the sub men than there are dominant women . These men are pretty sad looking to me as they watch alone . I was always with my hot commonlaw wife at the time . I looked at Backpage ,(put the name of any city next ).and clicked on domination and fetish and there are always plenty running ads. My thought back then was to have a relationship with a hot KH,who would be cheaper than a non pro that wants a lot of my time, and running errands and abusing me when I'm not really feeling it . AS it turns out I'm committing my self to my long term on,off again non pro Lady tomorrow,and giving her the keys to my padlock on my jailbird. it's very erotic thinking of giving my self up to her. I'm fantasizing asking her to photograph me in very embarrassing situations and holding them over my head to insure I don't take off for months at a time anymore . Don't know if I will suggest photo/videos, but while I'm aroused it sure is attractive . Thing is while caged I'm always aroused . We are not lovers ,just 2 people who share a need for each other. My Queen has never allowed me to hug,kiss ,or cuddle with her ,and I have no desire to . That's whu a pro Domme sounded interesting.