Had my check up today, all's well...Of course I was out of my cage for the visit. My Wife(KH) told me once we got home I was to go and get back into my cage. I have 6 now and one I really like wearing. When we get home, my Wife tells me she want to choose the cage. She gets the Nub out, tells me I wearing this one for the weekend. Most of the time she let me put it on by myself and doesn't watch. Today, she stands there and watches me put it on and while I'm doing that, she is teasing me and making me hard. I finally get my semi-hard penis in the cage and she locks it for me. Now, I know who is in command around here. I have not been allowed to cum since the end of Loctober, so 15 days. After I get back in and locked up, my Wife tells me nothing until my Birthday(Nov. 24). Just before she locked me back up, she asked me if I wanted to cum, she looked at me and the look in her eyes was saying "no you don't". So I asked her not to make me cum, she just laughed, gave me on final tug and walked away. Again, I turned down a orgasm...And it might be awhile before she give me another chance.
Sounds to me like your Wife is letting you know who is in the driver's seat. Sounds awesome to me Congratulations.