Do you wear your chastity cage through the night?

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Do you wear your chastity cage through the night?

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  1. ryanh
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    Do you wear your chastity cage through the night?
     
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    Not sure what sort of discussion you're looking for on this, but minimizing (or *eliminating* to be more precise) non-orgasm-related unlockings was the biggest priority for us when choosing a cage. Thus, a device that isn't comfortable enough to wear through the night just wouldn't be acceptable. Everyone has different goals/priorities though.
     
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    24/7 for sure
     
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    Right now day 12 (and Nights) of scheduled 14 without removal. We either use a 7 or 14 day cycle and may extend with joint agreement. Longest is 100, every October is 31, every Lent (except for this one) is 41. Ours is an enhancement and part of our lifestyle and only illness can stop an agreed time period. That has only happened once in 5 years. There are some people on here who are much more dedicated to this lifestyle and go extended periods of time.
     
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    i wear it as soon as i'm not near Her.
    also when i was working outside several days (and nights) and when i have holidays with friends (1 week every 3/4 years).
    the rest of time, in bed, She wants to be able to keep my dick as soon as She wants, also, no CB to sleep when with Her
     
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    My wife would find it much to cumbersome to give me the key every night.

    I'm allowed once a week to unlock to deep clean. But yesterday we agreed on a two week deep clean schedule since I was having no hygiene issues after a week.

    My wife agrees the less I have the key to my device the better. Plus a Chasity device works better than ANY alarm clock I've ever tried.
     
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    LockedInBama I serve at her pleasure

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    I’m locked 24/7, minus the cleaning once or twice a week.
     
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    Same here
     
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    Locked 24/7. Cleaning done while locked. Water pick and Q tips.
     
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    #10 Alceste, May 21, 2020
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    If you cannot wear it through the night, you are either not trying hard enough, or the device does not fit you correctly.
     
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    If it's on for less than 24 hours your just a tourist.
     
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    That strikes me as a bit dismissive. Let us not discourage the newcomers.

    Correct fitting is a problem. I have about 15 years of experience trying to find a suitable device, and it is just in the last 6 that I have been wearing a device that really works.

    Most men overestimate. If you are a grower, the best fit with a trapped ball device is snug in flaccid length and girth. Like anything, it takes getting used to, but most people can adapt to anything through both determination and necessity.
     
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    Yeah let's avoid the gatekeeping. Some folks may just wear a cage for an afternoon or during a scene. And that's totally fine if it works for them.
     
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    I stand by my statement. If your doing shorter than 24 hours your not getting the real experience. Some might argue the same if your in for less than a month or less than a year.

    I would say im encouraging people actually. Do you think you get the full experience if you take it off everyday?
     
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    Of course not, but it takes time to adapt to anything. That is assuming that the device fits correctly, as I discussed in my earlier post.
     
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    I never said anything about adjustment periods, why are you admonishing me ?
     
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    I dont think you can get the real feeling of being locked and not in control if you are released nightly to sleep, you just have a few restless nights and get comfortable with it, you will get a lot more out of it.
     
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    It took me a good while to be able to go through the the night on any sort of regular basis. I tried with the CB6000 and
    It just wasn’t comfortable at all and pinched like a MoFo!

    when I went custom I finally found one I could wear more than 2 days in a row.
    Each time seems to go longer and I haven’t removed it for over 5 weeks now.
    There. Have been a few rough mornings with attempted boners and they are frustrating but it is a constant reminder that I do this to be a better husband so I deal with it!
     
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    How am I admonishing you? I answered the question you asked of me.
     
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    I was hazard a guess that majority of people who use chastity cages are in a scene/play only, and not 24/7. This forum is not a true cross-section of chastity device users.
     
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    Certainly that is how it is portrayed in porn. I used to always be so disappointed when a couple would be having fun and suddenly there’s the key and everything is vanilla. Much more prevalent in commercial porn than the true amateurs, which sometimes left him locked up.
     
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    ditto!
     
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    I agree with @steph17 if your goal is to deepen your powerlessness and loss of control and strengthen her female authority. Wearing your cage overnight eliminates the unauthorized and uncontrolled overnight erections and definitely deepens your need for her to use her key; her control over your erection is the deepest intrusion into your core masculinity -- a man without erections cannot deny her power and his own submission. Consider the alternative, on first thing in the morning and off last thing at night before bed: you're getting masturbation control and losing ability to pester her for sex with your erection, but each night your essential maleness is allowed to rear its head and be flaunted as you cuddle her and try to make her give in. It's much better IMHO to let her control and decide when or if erections are permitted.
     
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    Absolute correct
     
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    I totaly agree, a man is weak.
     
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