We are quite new to all of this, my wife/KH and I. It's been just under a week. At the moment, I do not want her to let me know when I will be able to cum. In fact, I want the denial to go on for as long as possible. A few days into the denial, she suggested I may be allowed to cum that evening after some teasing and if she was pleasured enough herself. I actually felt disappointment. I want to see how far I can go without a climax. I want to feel that psychological change in absolutely not being able to orgasm for an extended period to see how it affects me and how it impacts our relationship (hopefully in a positive way, of course). That night I ended up not having a climax, luckily, and after a long and incredible teasing session she locked me back up. We had a conversation about it and I think she now understands, let's see how far we can go. Let's see where it take us. I believe that being able to orgasm, I'll just lose that pent up desire and pleasurably tortured feeling of needing to stroke my shaft, which already has transformed into an overwhelming desire to touch and pleasure my wife as much as I possibly can. How do you all feel about it?