Do you miss your chastity when you are not in it?

Oh yeah it’s tough. At least I’m on so much pain In my leg that I do t want to touch myself. My wife said what if you stroke it and before you finish I will squeeze your leg where it hurts? I said well if you are trying to turn me into a masochist and make me need pain to orgasm that would be the route but no thanks. I’ll pass! Lol


I’m going back in the cage the moment this other issue is cleared up better safe than sorry....and sad.....and grumpy.....wiped out......disappointed... and an upset wife.

 

That’s the revelation my wife had on 10 September 2014. She likes me better this way.

She expressed this just three days after my PA was finally stretched to 4ga and ready to be secured in my Contender cage. She held me down, told me she preferred me in chastity, and for the first time told me I should be locked up. She picked the exact right moment. Beforehand it was a self centered game. It all became real that month nearly 4.5 years ago.

She tells me “there’s no backing out now”. I love the double entendre.

Best of luck to you. It’s awesome when your partner embraces this fully. Not just tolerant but eager.

 

You're not on your own, me too, I feel naked without a cage on

 

So true on that note! I wish i had the strength to not masturbate unlocked, especially before chastity it was 3-6 times a day!

 

I wish the same for me! I get sooo "hard" if you even can call it that, at night. I hafta get up maybe 2 or 3 times. Ive gone from a 2" ring at the start of my chastity, to a 1.87", 1.75", now 1.65" in hopes it would keep things down. Doesnt help much during the night, but my wife loves knowing how tightly im locked up.

 

I definitely prefer to be locked.

I spent most of my life uncircumcised, but a few years ago my phimosis got so bad I had a circumcision. We had played with chastity before the circumcision but never found a device I could wear long term. After the circumcision we tried again and were successful with a Holy Trainer v2 and then soon upgraded to a Steelworxx Steelheart.

Now when I’m unlocked it feels uncomfortable because things rub and poke. But my Steelheart keeps everything protected. I noticed this when I was out for a rare week in February for healing of some sores that my wife was concerned about. But I rarely experience this. I finished 2018 with more than 95% of the year wearing.

Of course there is also the various feelings of wanting to be locked because I prefer the denial and that it is hard to not play with it when not locked.

Overall being locked just feels so normal and right.

 

You are not! I miss feeling Domina's control over me on the rare occasions when I am allowed to be unlocked. I once went to a football game and was given permission to be unlocked for the game. I was invited to a party post game so I made sure to take the device to relock myself at the gathering. During the drive to the party I found myself missing the feeling of being locked so much that I unzipped my jeans and locked in while stopped at a traffic light.

 

It just feels right to be locked up. As others have said, very comforting feeling as if being cuddled gently by my Mistress! ;D

 

Exactly that.
And its also a feeling of closeness that goes with that. It's a feeling that we are always together. Me locked, her with the key.

 

No, absolutely not.

And for me, there IS a difference between when I'm wearing my device and not. I still haven't had an orgasm in a while but I LOVE being locked.

The jailbird is just so COMFORTABLE!

 

As soon as you said "hugged" this completely clicked (no pun intended) for me. I've always been "weird" as my wife tells me all the time, and I've had multiple others comment that I'm on the [autism] spectrum. As such, I attribute certain comforts to that fact, such as constriction.
This makes perfect sense.

 

Usually yes!

Though sometimes if the chastity play has been on hold for a while, I might enjoy the cageless freedom, but eventually start fantasizing about getting locked up. Maybe that is the way it is supposed to be and where I belong. Jailbird is so very comfortable. I now have zero discomfort wearing it.

 

Well, hello, as someone who is confirmed ASD I can totally relate and yes, that hugged constricted feeling is what makes it for me too!

 

My Queen has just locked me up again after teasing Her cock.

 

Is like when you get used to sitting to pee... It does not go away anymore.. One time I went back home after been halfway to my office to put the chastity and let the key for her... It is part of my life now... She got so happy that we had more sex that week than usual.. OF course, I did not cum.. But at least I had her wet pussy.

 

Imgree