Do you miss your chastity when you are not in it?

Hey buildup. Don't have one, and the addiction becomes a 24 7 obsession, and the head trip fantasy never stops!

 

Why does she say "No."? If too personal, understood!

 

Yes and no, it just really depends on what’s going on in my life. Sometimes I find that I think I need a break every once in a while. I really attribute that my want for breaks is really just needing more attention from my mistress because of how incredibly busy she is. Usually after I’ve had a little break i start to feel off and I realize how much I really miss Cage and my mistress’s bossiness. The lifestyle is something that’s become ingrained in both my mistress and I now and we both don’t feel right unless I’m at least slightly under her thumb. She doesn’t feel right unless she’s in control and bossing me around and I really need that kind of attention from her.

 

My wife would probably be up for me never having one; but for me that would be a really heavy trip. Not sure if I could handle it. It's scary

 

Yes! I do!!!
Since the story of the lock breaking, my wife is now carrying out her own little experiment.

The new lock arrived - BUT, she decided to see how I am and how i behave without the cage being on.
She told me, 1 week out of the cage with no sex. She is on her period at the moment and doesn’t want PIV during it anyway.
Even laying in bed together, I give her her foot rubs which she loves. I am not allowed to even fondle my cock or balls while they are free. She sees that as virtual masturbation, which is probably true to a point... playing with it in front of her in this situation is a big no no - I explained - but he’s free.... and THERE... it’s what all men do.. ask any guy, why do you constantly touch your bits? 90% will say, Because they are there!!
She just said, well don’t!! Let’s just say it won’t help your cause when it comes to a release date....
So I try not to....

Obviously having been in the device for a month and almost getting over the nighttime erection ‘uncomfortables’, it’s like starting new again.

Hard erections waking me up. Wife laying next to me in bed, duvet off, simply begging (alas not literally) to be spooned. This is actually driving me insane! Horny and frustrated with a free cock but cannot do anything about it! I was of course stabbing her butt with a solid erection most of the night... again, not literally!!.. but I could feel the material of her perfectly feminine pajamas rubbing against the head of my dick and within 10 seconds of that I had the feeling that I could shoot all over her butt and back!! I had to simply move away before such a thing occurred - The Wrath of Wifey is not something to be tested!

She said that during the uncaged week, IF I have a sneaky cum , she will know (she really would actually!!) and then the chastity cage goes in the bin. Thus, one week without!

Is it me or is she simply being rather sadistic?

I asked if no sex meant totally no sex. I can of course pleasure her when her period is over (today is the last day). She said “you can!”.... so I am actually wearing a virtual cage - without the snug comfortable feeling of constantly having my bits being held firmly wherever I go! And yes... I am missing it a feck of a lot more than I thought I would!


So... as long as I refrain from having a sneaky wank in the shower, next Thursday will be lock up day again. (Unless Wifey is simply head fucking me still more!!)..

And I still have no idea how long she will want me locked before She even mentions letting me cum again! (January 22nd was the last time so I am now a month without!)

And maybe tonight I at least might get to leak like a drain while eating my wife to heaven and beyond!!

 

My sympathies are with @Andylocked , as a masturbator being forced to be unlocked but never touching would be a form of torture.

 

It is!!!!!!!!!!!!

She’s a hard woman, my wife!!!

 

Bit like your cock then !

 

Indeed..... a hard cock.... all dressed up and nowhere to go!!!
Only 5 more nights of this torture and then I can get the cage back on - which will help my poor fucked up head at least!!

 

Im in total agreement i really miss my cage when not locked and yearn to be locked up snug again

 

It's seems to me that not locked; but being but required to be chaste might be greater submission if you are able to do it

 

Afraid I lack that sort of discipline! The cage keeps me chaste!

 

I WAS being really good.... until my wife woke up... she decided it was time - she did ask me if I wanted to and I told her it was up to her..... so I got a fast and furious hand job from her and lasted about 10 seconds!!!!!

 

By no means are you the only one. To me its like having my wedding ring off. I hade to go over a week unlocked to heal. The longest week of my life.

 

Im healed now and back in the cage for 4 days now. Of course I was out on 2/14/19. That sucked

 

Our wives are all different. I was not out on 2/14/19, nor since. This is turning into Lockuary.

 

I can empathize. I’ve been there.
Tearing the sheets off my body as the slightest brush could put me over the edge. Laying face up with my untouched erection glistening with precum in the cool night air. Gripping those sheets fiercely, my hips and legs gyrating from the frustration. Wincing under the strain of her strict no touching rule. It’s nearly made me cry.

Being locked in chastity is a gift! I sleep easier in my most snug little Contender cage. I’m a grower and being kept small helps me sleep at night.

 

10 seconds! That's good going!

 

I am experiencing this right now. I have been locked almost 24/7 for the last 6 weeks. She let me out Saturday night for a little fun and I went a tad too far but still didn’t have a finish. But when I woke up Sunday I had a lump with bad pain in my thigh. She decided to let me stay unlocked until I can see the doctor today.

This didn’t however stop her from teasing me with pictures of her playing with herself after her shower last night and a merciless edging this morning. She asked me if I had cum since I was out of the cage and I was honest and said no. She started playing with me and sucking on nipple. I thought she would let me finish considering the pain that I am in and the fact that I was good while unlocked Sunday. Nope...I was literally begging her this morning and she got as close to the edge as humanly possible and said no. One little droplet of cum squeeked out. I scooped it on my finger and she grabbed my finger and put it in my mouth. She said “I like you better like this. Sorry honey. No orgasm for you”

If I don’t get back in that cage soon I’m gonna screw it all up. My will isn’t what I need it to be.

 

Hang in there! Remember that you're doing this for her, and thru her, to be the better you.

 

You are right of course and she truly does like me better this way and I have to admit that I do too. It’s just so much easier in the cage because I won’t touch in a way that will push me over. When unlocked and 6weeks horny the desire to edge and feel “anything” is so strong. Then comes the inevitable argument in my head.

“I should stop now” “Na, edges it a few more times” “Ok, ah crap i pushes it too far” “great, now I’m gonna feel like shit for 5 days after being denied so long. No way to hide it. She will find out and get mad”.

I’m trying !

 

True, Peter. I am thankful for the chastity cage and the protection it provides from erection and my lack of self-control over my masturbation.

 

I always lost that argument too, and finally told my wife I needed her help. She likes me better now, and I'm happier too.

 

It was rather humiliating actually.... I couldn’t even tense my muscles in time to make it feel good.... she literally forced a multiple dribble stream out of me....