Do you have chastity goal ideas?

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    The wife and I are on and off with chastity. She does pretty good but not really into it. I have been locked up to 3 months at a time before. I find, due to my wife's lack of interest, I need motivation or goals to reach for when locked. For example; lock duration, orgasm denial duration, hands free orgasm, etc... my personal goal of being Cucked will never happen, so what other ideas do you have? Maybe something that helped inspire your keyholder to be more involved.
     
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    Long term I would one day like to join the 100 days club.

    I can currently go for a month, and 100 days seems just about as out of reach to me now as a month did when I started out.
     
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    I’m still hoping to complete Loctober. Anything beyond that hasn’t been considered yet.
     
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    I like having a challenge that seems scary but exciting.

    That moment of, what if she keeps me for a month, what if she doesn't stop then?
     
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    Good luck. 6 months away. Lots of time to train.
     
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    Agreed! 100 days sounds like a good goal. I got done with a 100 days earlier this year. I'm working on hands free prostate orgasm.
     
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    Sort of happened to me. That was exhilarating! Can’t say I didn’t appreciate it at the time.
     
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    My wife has always been a very sexual person thru the years, we were swingers, participated in BDSM, and moved to chastity nearly 10 years ago. At first it was just a way to heighten our sex sessions and then she discovered the control over my cock. We had periods when work interfered with her full involvement, but since she retired her interest is now at a peak. My goal is to go along for the ride.
     
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    None at all. In fact I don't think I have ever had much in the way of goals in my entire life. Except to enjoy it, preferably without upsetting to many people on the way. ;)
     
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    I want to find the best cage for myself. Lock up on my birthday and give wife the key for Christmas. That is almost two months apart.
     
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    Sounds like a good plan!
     
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    Best of luck!
     
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    This sounds like a very zen approach to chastity
     
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    My mistress has all of my chastity goal ideas but doesn't tell me what they are. Recently she's been a bit disappointed by me safewording out of getting my bum whipped with a horse-crop a bit too easily, although she did stop and asked if my tantrum was over and if I was ready to continue. I also move around a bit too much when getting my balls whipped and made her miss her strokes so I've been asked to work on those. With hindsight I agreed with her that I could have tried a bit harder if i consider myself truly worthy to be her slave. Her training is excellent but I still have some way to go.
     
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    Spanking is now on my list! Thanks.
     
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    I honestly find spanking can be quite the relief.

    My girlfriend has spotted when I have had a bad day at work and a few whacks with the cane will get me back into a good headspace.

    It also can calm me down when I have been in chastity for a while and am climbing the walls with frustration.

    Which is not to say it doesn't hurt.
     
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    Agreed, a good spanking can defiantly take the edge off ...but when she spanks my balls and tries to "juice" them, the frustration level goes thru the roof!
     
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