Do women actually like men consuming their release?

Like many things here, yes and no. Some women, Dommes insist on it. Others could care less or actually dislike the idea. With so many folks on the site, there will be a wide range of preferences. To each their own.

 

My wife finds it relaxing, by the time I am allowed to finish she has already gotten off, so mostly she likes the cleaning more than the stimulation. She also appreciates not needing to run to the bathroom or the leaking down her legs.

She isn’t adamant about it, I would say the only time she gets a sexual thrill from it is when she is feeling playful and wanting to exert her authority. I would say it’s 50/50 but then again it only happens 10 times or less a year so it’s not like it’s that common.

 

Hello @Crowned
an interesting question you raise and I can only speak for myself and
my preference as a dominant female

I insist on my sub consuming any release he may be granted, all be it few
and far between,
I find it both arousing and a sign of willing submission, and usually on his part
holds an element of humiliation, which is also something I like him to experience,

as said above I think you will find a degree of variation to the answer to this
question,

regards
lady J

 

Mr A always recycles his cum, it was my idea, he was very reluctant at first, even refused to eat it the first time

I made sure from then on that there will be no wastage

 

"women" are not a homogeneous breed, all thinking the same way. Some will, some won't.

 

It does nothing for my partner, she thinks its gross.

And yet she has rubber gloved an orgasm from me on occasion and stuffed the proceeds in my mouth.

Perhaps the thought of it grosses her out but then there is spontaneity, it seems right at the time at her whim.

Strangely I wish she would make me because I would for her if it made her happy, I am sure I would think it gross too.

Since its not one of the things that makes her smile, then I really don't see the point in asking her to make me...that just doesn't make sense.

She does a lot of smiling though while she makes my bottom red from the paddle. So I ask for that sometimes...then regret it lol.

 

my Wife enjoys the warm feeling on her feet and enjoys me licking it up. So the answer is yes. I think she also realizes it aides in keeping me humble and submissive.

 

Just as all men do not think alike, neither do all women think alike.

Although I haven't been allowed to release in a long time, when I did release, Mistress required me to eat it. I am certain that was a power thing.

A past partner thought it was disgusting, but a previous Mistress would cum while stimulating herself, watching me eat it.

So, not all the same.

 

My wife doesn’t insist all the time, but laughs when she pushes my head down there following an occasional release, or sits astride my face.

 

When I still came inside, I would go down on her and lick her clean. For her, it was about convenience and not having to rush to the bathroom. A good licking and a quick wipe with a tissue and she was ready for sleep.

 

Yes, I make him eat his.

I enjoy watching him do it.

It affirms My Authority over him. I tell him to do it and he does. He even does it in front of other women when I tell him to.

It's fun humbling him about it after he's done it. I encourage the ladies who witness it to tease him about it. "Ewwww, you just ate something that came out of your penis!"
"Look at him. He dresses up in pretty underwear and sucks up cum like a little sissy because his wife tells him to ."

I always liked turnabout. He likes it when I swallow his ejaculate. If I can swallow it, he can, too.

 

well if it is all lick up least its not mess that make a mess. its better than it being all over things.

 

I know some who do and some who don't, theres as wide a spectrum of what women like as there is what subs and slaves like.

 

Yes and of course it's environmently better to not use toilet paper, a slaves tongue and mouth will do a much better job

 

This is an interesting topic.

My Lovely Wife, back when She allowed me orgasms, would gladly swallow my load anytime as She gave me delightful blow jobs. She wasn't particularly fond of the taste, but I believe Her submissive side (which seems to have been greatly diminished in recent years) would allow Her to do it out of servitude to Her man.

However, if I came in Her hand or anywhere else, She wouldn't lick it up, or be very hesitant to do so. Direct injection was the only way She'd take it! LOL

I, on the other hand, frequently wanted to eat my cum during our sex play before I came, but after I came, I had no desire to do so. Sometimes She would "force me", but usually She wouldn't, because She knew She wouldn't want to do it either.

However, once we started dabbling in chastity (before this lock-up), when She would let me out to have PIV sex with Her, She would frequently insist that I clean Her up afterward. She did this by having me lock back up immediately after my orgasm, and then tell me if I ever wanted to be released, I'd need to lick Her clean. That seemed to do it for me, and I would gladly go down on Her.

The thing is, She REALLY enjoyed this. She said so many times. Like others have said, I think part of it is the display of dominance over Her partner. Another part is not having to worry about the leaking mess and clean-up.

But, I also think part of it is what She told me during THIS lockup. That is, She really enjoys me licking her AFTER she comes. And sometimes, She actually prefers that to me licking Her BEFORE She comes. I was puzzled, but She explained it to me something like this.

Before She comes, She oftentimes has to concentrate and really work to get Herself into the right mindspace and get everything feeling just right. She rarely has multiple orgasms, She usually will have one, very intense orgasm, but it usually requires a fair amount of effort on our parts to get Her there. Her vibrators are the easiest way, but even those sometimes don't always do the trick. So when I lick Her BEFORE Her orgasm, She is working hard to try to make sure She can cum with my oral stimulation. Some days, it works very well and She cums in 5-15 minutes. Other days, it is a struggle. For both of us. And the longer it takes, She sometimes puts Herself under more pressure to cum and then the frustration level builds. We usually take a break, and start over a bit later. Sometimes, She just gets discouraged and we just cuddle, but She is obviously very frustrated at that point. So licking Her before can sometimes actually add some stress to Her orgasm process.

But AFTER She comes, all of the "pressure" of having an orgasm is gone. She can just lay back, relax and enjoy the sensations of my tongue on her delicate pussy. She usually wants me to stay away from Her clit, but sometimes She will encourage that after a while too, which sometimes leads to us working Her up to another orgasm. While I'm licking Her, my hands are wandering around Her body, massaging Her sexy body all over while She drifts down from the intensity of Her orgasm.

With THIS lockup, seeing as I'm no longer allowed to cum, I don't lick Her after PIV because we don't have PIV anymore. If I ever AM allowed to cum in Her, I certainly would lick Her afterward. Willingly. In fact, THAT is probably the thing I miss MOST about being orgasm free: cleaning Her up after PIV. If we ever evolve our relationship to include another man in our play, it would be a turn-on to lick Her after he came inside of Her. But for Her, I really think what is the biggest turn-on of licking Her pussy afterward isn't really about the cum inside Her. It's about the sensations She feels as I work to clean Her.

Wow...long answer.

~subrick

 

Do the men realize the amount of power we actually have over not only this, but all situations? If you, (the man) and your wife, Domme, Keyholder, Mistress, which ever title she has, if you have begun your journey correctly you are only required to do as you have agreed to during your agreement/contract phase.

My FLR, began about 5 years ago, my wife and I did just that. There are many things that were a no then, then became a maybe, and now are a hell yeah. It's the foundation of a strong relationship wether you live a vanilla life or not.

The boundaries and limits should continuously reviewed and discussed between the two of you. So... if you the man don't want to eat your own joy, it should be known in the beginning so you don't HAVE to.

Thanks

 

About 15 years ago - after having a few partners who wanted me to watch porn with them - I realized what was missing for me: the guy was not cleaning up his own cum but leaving the woman to deal with it. Sometimes she was fighting not to blink it out of her eye (I hear that burns), or she was making orgasmic noises while displaying it on her face or chest (um, sure - if that's now she gets her jollies, I guess). When I finally saw film of a guy licking up his own ejaculate, I realized that's what was missing from both porn and my sex life - why was his splooge my problem all of the sudden?

There have been a few who have been up to the challenge, and one did tell me that they enjoyed me making them do things that they didn't want to do ... but that was one person out of quite a few men - several of whom identified as submissive.

Still, I find it a lovely power-trip.

 

This practice evolved after a few years of our FLR. Back when I was allowed PIV sex, she insisted that is was my mess and I had to clean it up. She enjoyed my gently cleaning and often would have additional orgasms. Now when I am allowed a release, my Queen likes to point at the ejaculate and tell me to get my tongue busy. Her favorite place for me to shoot is on her rosebud and then lick her clean. She encourages me (tells me) to French kiss her anus as I clean up. For me, it is another act that symbolizes my status as her girlie slave and for her, it reinforces her ability to control my actions.

As always, this is a consensual FLR and either of us has the option of stopping it at any time. Sometimes we negotiate on new or expanded activities and other times I just do as I'm told. It works for us.

 

I eat my cum in different ways, when she pegs me I put my hand and then lick it an swallow, she continues pegging and masturbating for a second round and I eat it again. I cum on her mouth and then she passes me all of it to swallow. I cum on her pubis and lick it together with pussy and she cums again with my tongue and semen.
I have to try her ass, tits and feet!

 

My wife usually lets me come in a condom or milks me and collects it. She then sucks it up in a medical syringe and feeds it to me, mouth forced open (usually only part of it). I find it so disgusting that she usually has me tied up (hands behind back) and a gag that forces my mouth open. I will never enjoy the taste of it.

 

Yes, I do enjoy it, even though my pet sometimes still resists--and that's after his very rare releases--as it is a always an non-negotiable condition for allowing any release in the first place.

I find it normal for pet to clean up after himself.

Why wouldn't they have to do it?

 

I didn’t always have to clean up, and did so rarely for a few years. Nowadays it’s a requirement after piv and she will orgasm when I do so.

 

well its better when it still warm. some is not tho.