Hello! I’m fairly new to the chastity scene and my dom is wanting me to start chastity and I am 100% ready and willing to try. However, the one cage he got me is big and clunky and not discreet at all. I need a discreet cage as I live with my parents and wear basketball shorts like... all the time. Can anyone recommend me a cage that will be discreet enough to where there’s not a huge bulge in my genital area? A small bump would be fine, I just don’t really want my family seeing a large bump there. Thank you!!
Hi, Well 2 points here. Firstly you need a correctly fitting cage based on the length of penis and I would suggest that you look for a curved design so that it sits between your balls. Second, look for a cage with an integrated lock as a padlock is often the most visible part. Mine is a Steelworxx Steelheart and as you can see is virtually invisible even under running leggings . Hope that helps.
After experimenting with many devices, I would recommend starting with the Cherry Keeper as it is a great design and although not custom, it is offered in dozens, if not hundreds of combinations of cages and base rings at a relatively low price point. After wasting time/$ on a bunch of cages, I finally got a digital caliper for $10 and properly measured myself then got the right sized Cherrykeeper parts and was satisfied for awhile. Once you are comfortable with the sizing and ability to wear the device, then go for a custom steel device like you mention. At least this way you know in advance before plunking down a few bills and waiting a few months.
if you are looking to be "active" while wearing a device. You might want to go with a non-metal device like the cherry keeper. Also, all Cherry Keeper parts are modular... so if you buy the wrong item, you can replace the one piece that isn't working for you.
it's also worth noting that cages are seldom as obvious as you think they are. You're ultra-conscious of it, and you'll probably stare at yourself in the mirror and think "that's really obvious", but the truth is nobody else is going to be staring at your crotch with that level of intensity. As long as your clothing is relatively loose it's unlikely to be as noticable as you think.