Dilemma

I have been into chastity for a few years now, no long stints locked up, but could not get the missus in to it, although she tells me she is quite dominant. The dilemma I have is:
I have been acting the nob recently in the hope my missus would enforce chastity on me, you know leaving happy tissues around and rubbing it in her face about how many time a day I pleasure myself, and generally being a nob. Is this still topping from the bottom or is this one way to get my missus to really release her dominant side?

answers on a post card please (or here)

Thanks

 

I stopped the being a nob as this was not working and decided to try another way. Talking.
This has lead me to my getting my wish.
Even more than expected. the missus locked me up the same day we talked about it and I thought great!
Two days later its was my birthday and i was going away early in the morning the day after my birthday, so I thought that she would let me out and bring me off for a birthday treat.
on the night of my birthday she came in to the bedroom, after putting our little one to bed and got out the key to my lock. The missus walked over to me and unlocked my CB lock, only to place a plastic lock on straight away without even removing the cage and then walked back out.

So lesson learned.
Don't try to manipulate the missus to get your own way, just sit down and talk to each other.