Well I didn't. I read about male chastity on websites and seen pictures of devices and had purchased CB6000 which seemed to be a popular choice with both wearers and key-holders. Over a period of months I had used it from time to time experiencing a strange thrill at being confined. However this is not the real start of this story for in truth my sex life had become non-existent with my wife of twenty odd years yet I still felt an urge that needed to be satisfied. I did not want to cheat on my wife yet I did not know how to broach any subject on how our sex life might recover. We had grown apart by focussing on things that we both enjoyed in our own way. Masturbation and fantasy became a way of life one that I wanted to share but in some way this did not appeal to my wife who I felt that I was looking to replace her with fantasy. That was always furthest from my thoughts as I love my wife dearly. I had stumbled on male chastity whilst surfing porn and it intrigued me. The thought of having my cock and balls locked in such a fashion as to deny both and erection and orgasm arousing; so I had bought a device. The question was how to introduce it to my wife and would I feel comfortable wearing it? I decided to try getting use to the cock piece and ball ring – which I did by trying different combinations of the components supplied. Once I found the right combination I wore for longer periods of time always having the key to the lock with so that I could release myself should it become necessary. Eventually I would lock myself up and leave the key at home so that I could not unlock myself, this providing additional stimulus. But I really wanted to involve my wife and the question was how to do that? In our bedroom by the side of our bed are two sets of drawers. In then we keep underwear and my wife when she finishes ironing she puts the fresh clothes away in the appropriate drawer. I decided to put the device in a drawer, slightly hidden so that if she rummaged around she’d find it. I thought that if she did she might say something but after a few weeks it soon became clear that if she had found it she wasn’t going to say anything and I wasn’t going to mention it first. I didn’t want a bedroom argument that could have gone seriously wrong – I assumed that my wife didn’t want the same. So how could I brooch the subject without ending in tears. I decided on further online research and came across a website ‘Male Chastity Journal’. Here was a man who had gone through a similar path to my own and had persuaded his wife to be the key-holder and was writing about his experiences and giving advice. I looked around and found more which helped me decide what to do next. I was due to go to London for the day and I decided to write my wife a letter and leave it in my underwear drawer knowing that whilst I was away she would probably be ironing and putting clothes away where the chastity device was kept. I typed the letter because I wanted to make sure I got my words right and wrote: ‘Dear In case you’re wondering, the lump of plastic that you can see in this drawer is a ‘male chastity device’ and it helps me to control my urges to masturbate. How it works is that a plastic ring fits behind my balls with my cock fitting into the penis shaped head. When you join the two pieces, you can lock together with the padlock. I suppose it may seem strange the idea of locking my cock into a little cage but it’s something I’ve been interested in for some time; with the thought of forcibly preventing an erection and orgasm being quite arousing in a strange way and if you had control of that would be doubly so. So, how do you feel? I purposely left the device visible so that you could think about what it was and what my intentions were. I hope you’re not shocked or disappointed and consider what I’m about to suggest. What I would like to try is for you to become my ‘key-holder’ and be the person who allows me a form of sexual release. I’m not sure how this plays in your mind but I would suggest that I lock myself up for two weeks with you holding the key to my release. During the two weeks we can explore how we feel and talk about it. After the two weeks we can decide on the next steps. What do you think? If you want to give it a go then you can do one of two things. You can leave the unlocked device where it is and take the key or you can take the key and put the device on the desk in the office. You would keep the key with an agreement that you would release me after two weeks. If you don’t want to participate, leave things where they are and I’ll respect that with nothing more being said. I don’t want you to feel pressurised in anyway as I truly love you with all my heart and there has never been anyone else All my love’ I wasn’t sure what reaction I would get but nothing was said on my return from London and even as we cuddled in bed that night nothing was said. It was the next morning after we had had our morning ‘in bed’ drink of tea and subsequent cuddle that I told my wife that I loved her and she responded, “Does that include your balls.” I said, “Yes,” and moved to kiss her cheek saying, “do you want to lock me up?” She replied,” I’m thinking about it.” The subject had been broached! What happened next I wasn’t sure what to do next as I had to admit I expect her answer to ‘No, I’m not interested’ so I did a bit of research on the net and article by Saskia Zenn - He Wants You to Lock Him Up! I read it and printed off the article and gave to my wife saying I thought it would help her understand how I felt. I particularly liked the introduction as it summed up how I felt at the time I decided to ask her and explained what it meant to be a key-holder, a phrase I liked because I knew that she wouldn’t see herself as a ‘Mistress or Goddess’. She also doesn’t see herself as dominant but there are times when she and be assertive and brook no nonsense. Nothing was said when I gave the article to her and it was a week later when I asked her again if she would lock me up. Her response was only in the house and my heart leaped with joy and I thanked her and cuddled her saying she had made me very happy. The following morning, which was a Sunday we were having a drink in bed when I gave her the CB6000 along with the lock and one key. I explained that if she was going to be my key-holder she could have custody of the device and choose when to lock me up. She took at the device from and then asked where the second key was. I showed her that it was in a safe place and was in case of emergency. She then asked if it fit because it looked uncomfortable and I told that it came with different rings to aid correct fitment and the combination she held was correct for me. She then explained that she had never heard of male chastity before and her only knowledge was through history and female chastity; I sensed that she was a bit overwhelmed and gave her a cuddle telling her how much I loved her. She then put the device away. So the next move is up to my wife and at her pace; she may lock me up, she may not, I’ll have to wait and see. First Lock-up As I went to bed two weeks later and with my wife already in bed that I saw the chastity cage sitting on my beside table. At first I thought she had rejected the whole idea of locking me up so I put the device in the drawer of the table and then realised that the key was missing. I then realised that this was the signal that that she was prepared to give this ‘male chastity thing’ a go. Picking up the device I took my pyjamas and went into the bathroom to do my ablutions before fitting the cage. I have to admit that there was a stomach churning excitement as I tried to fit the device around my hardening cock although some cold water enabled me to get it on. Going back to the bedroom I can’t explain how I felt as I got into bed and cuddled my wife. Nothing was said but my affection for her soared as we kissed and said goodnight to each other. Through the night it was mostly uneventful although we did cuddle each other from time to time and in the morning before we got up she asked me if I wanted to be released – I declined and wore the device for the rest of the day. It’s now day three and I’m in her hands as to when I’ll be released!