Hello everybody, I live together with my fiancé, we are both into bdsm (she's dominant, I'm submissive). As we have two kids living this lifestyle often isn't that easy. My first interest that had to do with bdsm was male chastity...the great thing is that it is a an aspect which we can "live" the whole time and are not limited to the bedroom or periods of time when there are no kids at home. Because of that we were experimenting a bit with it and we like it a lot. I've finally found a cage (cherrykeeper) that I can wear without having any problems. As I've already written in the review section, this cage definitely is great, but unfortunately the standard version is a bit too small for me for wearing it at night (@JosieLynn Jewell is there a 46mm double ring available? I haven't found one in the shop actually.). But: I can wear it at work, at sports and so on. Well, about 80 dollar of course is a lot of money (compared to lots of other cages it's of course really cheap...), so I won't order a bigger one right now. Because of that we've already set the rule that I don't have to wear the cage during the night at the moment. At the moment we struggle a bit with setting rules for my duties as the wearer of the cage. How did you set those rules? When are you allowed to take it off? Are you allowed to take it off in the shower for cleaning? Do you have to ask if you want to take it off for a while? Where are the keys? And so on... Lots of questions I know...I just hope to get a bit of input, doesn't matter from whom. Wearers, keyholders, etc....I'm thankful for every reponse (answer here or private message).