Deep breath. And... relax. Here goes

Before he goes out with the boys or goes off to work take your finger and rub your sent under his nose and tell him he is not allowed to remove it. He will be reminded of you for awhile with every breath he takes. Of course an even better way to do this is having him use his oral skills on you before going out and no washing allowed on his part. Trust me I know that it works. It may even keep his cage tighter for awhile lol

 

Yes, the chastity is the craziest thing!
There is a part of Pete that probably didn’t want to come as he knew he’d lose that glorious feeling of desperation/frustration.
Similar thing happened to me yesterday.
KH gave me the opportunity and I did everything I could to NOT come.
Despite Her telling me it was ok if I did.
So I held off, got locked back up as soon as She finished.
Now it’s over and I wish so badly for another chance (could be weeks away).
In the moment though, I knew it was best for Us if I didn’t.
Pete probably had that disappointed feeling because he knew what he was going to lose. Upon realizing that there would be a round 2, that disappointed feeling dissipated as he had another O AND more intimate time with YOU just on the horizon.
The mental gymnastics that chastity brings about, there is nothing like it!

 

@longtallsally Yes, chastity can be complicated but any relationship is complicated. The really good news is that the two of you are communicating on a more intimate level. Chastity has helped make that possible. Think of all the vanilla couples who are too fearful to talk about their feelings and deepest desires. They become stale as a couple and take their solace in solitary masturbation when they think their partner isn’t looking. For many (especially men) it’s easier to masturbate then to take the time to make their partner excited about exploring different ways of having sex.

It’s a wild rollercoaster of emotions and definitely worth the price of admission especially with a loving partner!

 

@longtallsally I'm curious to know if you notice a "subdrop" in his behavior after allowing him two O's the same day before locking him back up. Please let us know your observations over the next several days.

I can relate to @Jessica Alexander and her suggestion re: panties/knickers. When my wife and I started this journey, she teased me one day by leaving a pair of her worn panties out on the bathroom vanity for me to find after she left for the day, and obvious direct tease which she later confirmed. We agreed going forward that any worn panties left out of the hamper were fair game for me but that I was not to go digging into the hamper. She forbids me from stimulating / teasing myself (I'm on the honor system). I rarely find worn panties on the floor or elsewhere anymore, sadly. But she's incredible at physical teasing so I can never complain, but I like to hint once in awhile!

 

For fun you can just just give him a pair when you leave the house and he will be there alone. Just smile and say, "Don't forget about me while I'm gone." He will be speechless and not know what to think. He will be riled up when you get back, for sure! You can also have him worship you down there but forbid him to get under your panties. Then you can leave them with him. Lots of fun and crazy things to do that will melt his mind! (in a fun and exciting way, of course).

 

Many of us men have similar feelings, the continual buzz that comes from the lock up and the denial, and some of us quite like breaking our previous lock up/no orgasm record, so are a bit disappointed when it comes to an end.

For us, it’s entirely up to my wife if and when I orgasm, our longest denial period was 3 months. These days I actually enjoy the journey more than the destination, I’m very happy (whether caged or not) to be teased, and then denied.

 

Wonderful statement! Thanks @Jay Sub

 

Indeed, chastity can have unexpected sides.

I have wondered why you have not made love several times already that you have broken the month of chastity.
I would have expected you to take away some of the 'cravings' for penetration, since with this game the PIV thins out.

Also, here my experience, after prolonged periods of abstinence I like to start cumming again, even on subsequent days.
This makes me very conscious of what I am giving up.

 

This is a great fantasy by longtallstory, errm, sally.

 

Ooh, @JaySaysYes , the controversial comment has come out! Is it true, is fiction? No one will ever really know. Regardless, I’ve found the various threads by @longtallsally very interesting and stimulating to read. And I really do hope it’s all true.

 

It's just my opinion.

If you ever watch any of those videos on YT where detectives interview killers you'll see a common theme; The killers recall massive detail when lying, to try to make their story believable.

It's a really fun fantasy, but it is a fantasy.

If people believe it, and play along, then it serves it's purpose to both you and the author.

 

@longtallsally, I've really enjoyed your writings. I have to say that I think it's reasonable to question anything I read here, it being a rather anonymous place. Early on I thought of suggesting you were a Sheherezade of Chastity Mansion.

I, for one, have enjoyed your writing enough that I don't care whether you are honest with me, because you can write! For that matter, I don't care what bits you were born with... but I might be curious.

So roll with it as you wish. That's my two cents.

And all that said, it seems to me CM is a well run site. I've learned a lot here and I've been validated in meaningful ways. And Pete, well, I hope he enjoys every day of his adventure. You're definitely capable teasing a guy to a high pitch.

 

Please take your negativity elsewhere. This is not your thread so please don’t try to devalue it here

 

It's not your thread either, lol.

It's not negative to point out the truth.

 

Thanks for telling every female contributor on here that they will never be believed.

But hey, you managed to make someone else’s thread about you so bonus right?

Congrats, cool guy.

 

The truth? You mean your truth!

I don't know if it's fantasy or truth but i enjoy Sal's writeups very much.

There's definitely jealousy from you here.

 

there is a slight, but important difference between truth and assumption.
i sincerely think we should stop discussing this topic and ignore these kind of destructive comments. Let's rather focus on the continuation

 

Blimey, look at that.

An unverified man in his mom's basement pretending to be a woman, telling a tall story, has pulled the foreskin over the eyes of The Locked Boys.

I will be delighted to be proven wrong, so have at it chaps, and by "chaps" I include longtallsteven, obvs.

 

Sal, don't let trolls deter you. I've enjoyed this thread so much in part because your experiences are so believable and authentic. You aren't bragging: you're reporting your experiences, showing a lot of doubt, asking for advice, acknowledging errors and steps backwards ... that's not the writing of a wanker fantasist. Thank you for sharing so genuinely and with trust that (most of us) won't diss you.

You wrote

As someone else noted, everything about relationships can be complicated. What I've been learning is that in the early days each encounter is heightened, expectations can be unrealistic, disappointments about a particular thing that happened in a particular session can be disproportionate. But with more experience, we settle down. As you and Pete have more time in this lifestyle, more experiences, it won't be such a big deal if you or he doesn't get exactly what you are fantasizing in a particular encounter ... you'll appreciate the loving fun you did have and look forward to next time.

For example, in our first year, I could be quite disappointed, to the point of being a mood killer, if my wife released me for an O sooner than I hoped (I was very into prolonging the tease and denial). Or if when she did, she brought forth that O quicker than I would like. Now, of course, it still happens sometimes that I would prefer to stay caged more weeks or even months, or might wish that a play session lasted longer. But it doesn't bother me the same way. I take more pleasure in being her submissive (if *she* wants me uncaged an in her pussy, I'm happy to oblige!), and I know that this is just one day on a lifelong journey: there will be future lockups that last, even longer than I'd like, etc.

 

Thank you @L-u-c-y .

 

There is a cool feature with this site. Click their name then click IGNORE and it’s like they cease to exist on this site for you. I encourage others to do that to if you find someone to be insufferable.

 

I've that feature for a ton of people who only ever post "Hi and welcome to the Mansion" and almost nothing else.