@longtallsally To answer your question, cold doesn’t really affect arousal. I believe it simply constricts the blood vessels making it difficult to sustain an erection. I’m sure throughout the entire conversation he was incredibly aroused. It will be interesting to see what options he has to offer for your fulfillment. Quizzing him about the pros and cons of each option should also be illuminating. Remind him that you’re only having this discussion because he’s a habitual masturbator who seemingly would rather play with a penis then use it to satisfy you sexually.