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    #551 Open2njoy, Jul 13, 2022
    Of course you did the right thing.
    First and foremost, it made you feel good. If the truth be told, he probably loved it too.
    Second, it’ll help get him over the hump of being afraid his cage may be visible.
    Third, you probably prevented him from sneaking off to the restroom for a quick wank.
    Fourth, had he taken it off he might have had to deal with an embarrassing, unbidden erection which would have been visible in his swim trunks.
    Fifth, you asserted your ownership over your penis.

    The only downside would be if he chose to ignore you and used his emergency key in a nonemergency situation.

    You are a fast learner and a perfect key holder.
     
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    #554 SlaveBoy73, Jul 13, 2022
    I recommend taking it off for the swim.
     
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    #555 Vasyl, Jul 13, 2022
    @longtallsally You write a great life experience. I think it will be useful sometime to collect all your posts into a single book on how to tame a man ;)
     
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    #556 longtallsally, Jul 13, 2022
    I like your fourth point! sal
     
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    #557 longtallsally, Jul 13, 2022
    That's lovely of you to say - I sometimes wonder who's doing the taming though, him or me! Sal
     
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    #558 maid julie, Jul 13, 2022
    He is being tamed and your exploring your inner self and enjoying a whole new awakening
     
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    #559 longtallsally, Jul 13, 2022
    I dressed up (or down) for him last night. Nice underwear, clopping around in heels, a bit of mascara and lippy. When he got home, he immediately clocked the situation! I asked how the swimming had been and he said it was refreshing. I asked if there had been any problems and he said not. Any problems changing, or it being too obvious getting out of the water? Apparently he'd just been careful. And nothing had slipped off in the water.

    I gently asked if I could just check the key. I tried to use the same tone as I would if I were just checking to see if there was any fluff on his jacket. He looked at me a bit strangely but fetched his wallet and gave me the key - all wrapped just as I'd left it. And I'd already checked the other emergency key in the kitchen. I made a huge fuss of him then, saying how pleased I was that he did this for me and I swear he blushed! (It's mighty hot here though, so I may have been reading too much into it).

    We had a long snoggy kiss and I asked him how he felt. He said that when he'd texted asking if he could take the cage off, he'd half expected and hoped (and hoped!!!!) I'd say no. He said that while we were texting each other he'd felt very aroused and if he hadn't been in his cage he'd have been throbbing. I didn't tell him how much I'd enjoyed him begging. I said that I was so pleased with him taking my direction that for the next three hours, he could have anything. He didn't seem to have to think about it at all. He asked me if he could come there and then, and then 'with proper sex' in an hour or two. I just said yes and, I kid you not, he was fighting back tears. I asked him if he was ok and he just said, Hormones, I suppose". I took him to the shower to get the chlorine off, unlocked him, and washed and shaved where the ring goes. While I was shaving him, he said that he'd been chafing a bit in the hot sweaty weather but hadn't said anything because I would just think it was an excuse. I could see it was a bit red and I suggested that we leave the cage off for a few days. I know he'll play with himself but I said that if he dared to do it in bed next to me I would lock him up and throw away the key!

    With just a little stroking and kind words, he came very, very quickly, which I rather enjoyed and an hour later we had a lovely time together, slow and steady and satisfying for us both. He's out now, uncaged. As he left, he said it somehow felt more natural to have it on than to be without it. I asked him to promise me to try not to play with himself over the next few days and if he did, I would know and there would be consequences. The trouble is, I'm not sure that I would know.

    Sal
     
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    #560 maid julie, Jul 13, 2022
    I bet you know him well enough that when you ask him if he did anything or maybe even just the way he acts around you that you will know
    I also found that by adding some lube under the ring during the day would help with the chafing
     
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    #561 Open2njoy, Jul 13, 2022
    It’s great to see he followed your instructions to leave the cage on and overcome his fear of discovery. It’s also great to hear that he wanted you to remain firm and not give in to his begging to use the emergency key. Both acts should be a clear indicator to you that he finds the experiment to be exciting even if it can be frustrating and scary at times. It’s common to miss being caged when granted freedom. He’s learning to be honest with you and although he will probably take advantage of his freedom to masturbate, he will most likely admit it to you when asked and will willingly submit to being caged again.
     
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    #562 maid julie, Jul 14, 2022
    Or he is enjoying what has been going on and does not want to do anything to have it stop
     
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    #563 handsolo, Jul 14, 2022
    Oil or silicone based lubricant, applied liberally, and before any chafing/discomfort starts. Aquaphor is the default recommendation.

    Keep up your fondling, teasing, and praise. Judge by his physical and emotional responses. If you suspect disobedience, level your most direct and stern question at him. It's possible at this point he's at least fantasizing about being punished. You may want to start thinking about your tolerance for brattiness or topping from the bottom.
     
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    #564 littleguy3, Jul 14, 2022
    I used to use a water based lubricant 2x daily especially after showering on the base of the ring under the scrotum to prevent chafing. I started using Chamois Butt'r recently after seeing it mentioned on a website by a woman who is documenting her experience keeping her husband in chastity. He is a cyclist and triathlete who uses this product when training and racing. I said "Duh" because I used to do the same. This product is longer lasting than the water based lube in that it doesn't get absorbed into the skin as quickly. And it's been around for a long time so it's a safe, proven product. My wife uses the female version of this product when we go cycling to keep her pleasure center from getting irritated and is very happy with the results. I just reapply it whenever I shower and I'm good until my next daily shower.
     
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    #565 Danny15, Jul 14, 2022
    I do tend to find my ring chaff's a bit, I use sudacrem on it most days and it works pretty well, I've also seen others recommend other nappy rash creams .
     
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    #566 bondinchas, Jul 14, 2022
    Another milestone. It's only hours since you worried about whether to keep him caged for his swim and now he admits that he didn't really want you to let him take it off and he feels that wearing it all the time is now his new "normal".
     
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    #567 longtallsally, Jul 21, 2022
    Hello everyone,
    Just logging in to make a quick apology for not posting for a while. I'm afraid we both have covid. It's not scary or anything but it's not much fun either. We've put the cage aside for a bit. Normal service resumed shortly - I hope. Sal
     
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    #568 Stephplayswithyou, Jul 21, 2022
    Glad to hear from you and that you guys are doing okay. Here's to hoping for a quick recovery and a return to normal activities soon.
     
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    #569 maid julie, Jul 21, 2022
    Take care and thanks for the update. I was wondering what had happened to you
     
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    #570 Open2njoy, Jul 21, 2022
    Take good care of yourselves. The cage play can wait until you’re both feeling better. Appreciate you checking in. Sometimes life gets in the way of sexy play. It simply means it’ll be more exciting in the future.
     
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    #571 iome343, Jul 22, 2022
    First of all welcome back, I read you a lot although I comment little and, I admit, I missed your presence in the forum.

    I am sorry to hear about the covid, but I am sure you will get well soon and the desire to play will return greater than before.

    We look forward to seeing you
     
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    #572 ChasteCel, Jul 22, 2022
    Hope you both feel better soon!

    (Though I have to admit I'm a little jealous, my wife usually makes me leave the cage on when I'm sick. We don't do anything at all with it, but it's still there...)
     
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    #573 Powerocket, Jul 22, 2022
    I sit, locked in my own cage, in a relationship with a partner who has grown to become such a wonderful owner of my orgasms and erections and have read this thread from start for finish.

    This really is such an incredible account of how chastity can be brought into a trusting and supportive relationship. I look forwards to following your relationship as you continue! Thank you so much for sharing @longtallsally .
     
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    #574 BarbCD, Jul 22, 2022
    We issued your updates. I hope it’s a mild case for both of you.
     
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    #575 bondinchas, Jul 22, 2022
    I've just had a week off work with Covid too.
    It seems that the most prevalent UK variant at the moment is quite mild but comes with a really irritating dry cough, which persists even after you test negative after the first week.
    We too put the chastity device in the drawer for the duration, it just makes sense to prioritize your health over your kinks, fun though they are.

    Hope you and Pete recover quickly, x
     
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