Deciding when to be locked

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    should a slave be entitled to decide when to be locked or should this entitlement be a privilege of the Mistress only?

    i vote for the second option
     
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    I would say it depends on the Mistress. I am allowed to ask to be locked if I’m not for what ever reason she has decided I not be. But ultimately it is up to her. If she isn’t in the mood to deal with it my cage goes in a drawer and life goes on.
     
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    In my opinion their is No Vote.
    It’s Her Property. She locks it when she want and for how long she wants. Any question. No
     
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    her choice, her action
     
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    I guess it depends on your dynamic but typically it should be up to the KH.
     
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    i will be realesed in 2 days due to an airplane trip but apparently i will be locked again as soon as i will reach my hotel at destination and for a time of 9 days but let's see if my mistress @TheMinistressGrace will change her mind
     
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    I can't speak for others but I have absolutely no say in the matter. My 'captivity' or release is at Kitten's pleasure and amusement.
     
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    Depends on the dynamic in your relationship with your KH.

    For us, I usually determine when a lockup will begin, and she determines length of lockup. This is highly predicated on us discussing factors that may come into play (ie travel or job issues), what we are each looking for from the lockup, and a myriad of other factors. With this level of communication we have done 6 months with no unlocking at all, but have also done as short as a couple of days. Either way we are both pleased with it, which makes both of us more willing to repeat.
     
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    Of course not! My goodness what are you thinking! Next you'll be wanting an orgasm! And as you well know, orgasms aren't good for you (or so Mrs Chaste says, and who am I to argue?). And what's all this "privilege of the Mistress" stuff as well? Surely you mean "right of the Mistress?" If all us blokes decided if and when we are to be locked in chastity the world would be in a right mess! Do you think I've just hit on the solution to all the problems faced by humanity? Lock the cocks and save the planet!!!! :). Glad you cast the right vote in the end (like you really have a choice!). Have fun, may your lock ups be long and orgasms few :lock: :).
     
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    yes sorry i meant right rather than privilege
     
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    TheMinistressGrace International key holding services
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    glad to see fellow chasting men are whipping you in my place! That's what you deserve.
    the more you whine, the worse it gets <3
    G*
     
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    i'm not afraid to be locked my dear Mistress
     
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    I would share your screenshot from this morning asking: wouldn't you release me earlier? BUT it's in another language than so it's a bit useless...
    OR NOT?
    G*

     
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    I ask my Wife (KH) about everything to do with my "cage"...If I want it off, I ask...If she wants it back on, she tells me to put it back on. And I pissed her off a week ago. I put it back on after a shower and locked it without thinking... Or permission...Never do that again...Rookie mistake...
     
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    Hmmm! This is all very good. But in the world of Mrs and Mr Chaste the concept of wether or not I'm locked or not doesn't arise! It makes for a very simple life, no fear of annoying her at all. No point in asking to be unlocked (unless for a medical or irritation reason), the answer is always no! Even if she decides it's time to clean and sterilise the Queens Keep the steel 6000s is locked in place. And when traveling abroad it's the trusty CB6000s with plastic lock. Contrary to the experiences of others, I find it very comfortable and easy to keep clean for a 2 or 3 week period without removing!
     
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    Yes, you have. The amount of killing and poverty and environmental degradation caused by testosterone and dick-waving is incalculable.
     
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