Hey, Newbie here.. seeking advice.. I would love a flr with my wife but she's a bit vanilla.. any advice how to approach it? I'd love chastity and some feminization but not sure how to start.. should I drop hints or just put it all on the table any advice welcomed .. Thanks Emma xx
Hello and welcome. There are threads on exactly this in the FLR section, do have a look! I'm afraid I don't have any useful advice, I've been trying (without really knowing that that is what I was trying) for over a decade and I've got nowhere. However, general advice is to be good to your wife first, constantly find ways of making her life easier and say very little about having an FLR until she seems to be comfortable with you doing things that she likes for her.
We were looking at uberkinky together and found the devices by accident. I think I said something like I bet that would a laugh but I know you'd never be able to not unlock me as a joke and she took that as a challenge. We ordered the most horrendous iron device there was because it was cheap and it just took off from there. Maybe something similar could work for you? Keep it light hearted and just a bit of silly fun without any long term implications. See how it goes?
I don't think there's any 'one size fits all' advice unfortunately. It all depends on the person and how you think they'll react. I've heard some really great stories, as well as some complete horror stories!