Cunillingus

I read an awful book called She comes

I read an awful book on cunnilingus, She comes First... no criticism meant @Mr M but it just didn't work for me and my Wife. I had an almost 100% record performing cunnilingus on Elle during the 25 years of our relationship and was looking for ways to get better. The first few times after I read the book Elle put up with it but she rapidly had enough. She asked me what the hell was I doing? When I showed her the book she told me in no uncertain terms that her enjoyment of cunnilingus could not be put into a series of numbered instructions. It took me a good while to get back to doing what she liked which was to read the responses of her body and use that as my inspiration.

As for favourite positions? I am not being flippant when I say who cares!? I have my mouth, tongue, nose, chin and fingers all providing my Wife with pleasure. Whatever position gets her closer to that enjoyment is fine by me.

 

@Jasmic68 lol. If it already works well, why spoil it. Be guided by your wife.

 

After a good massage, leisurely done , laying on the bed on a sunday afternoon by springtime, after spending the whole day on the beach.

 

Haha!

 

Very Nice Thank You for sharing

 

My Mistress enjoys it most laying on the bed with me holding her legs up. I like it more when she's on the edge of the bed and I kneeling on the floor. Both ways work for both of us

 

Jasmic68
Come on now, did you really think you needed a book for tips?

I'll give you the only tip you need to know. One you already know. The one I bet you were doing for years,

LISTEN TO HER BODY.

You know you get more from why her body tells you than some book.

Sorry but once you learn how to listen to her body (like you did years ago), you know all you need to know. You know you can have fun, you can adjust things, try things, and do what you do best. A book doesn't tell you that, your experience does.

 

@tomf_22033

100% correct. Luckily I managed to get the instructions of the book out of my head and go back to doing what I had been doing before and, as you put it, listen to her body.

One good thing came out of the fallout surrounding the book but also with our experience of me giving her a yoni massage. Elle is now more vocal in helping me with her needs. She tells me to slow down, to go softer, harder, to suck or she gives me little suggestions that something I am doing is good, do that more. Before the bad experience of what happened when I followed the books directions she would not do that as she wasn't comfortable with the idea of telling me what to do. Now she understands that talking to me while she floats into an orgasm turns me on more than anything.

 

You can call it anyway you want. It just seem to me if someone is going to start something asking people what they think about something or your favourite it's only polite and right if you should answer your own Question first. If you want others to answer it. If that cheeky to you that's fine it wasn't meant to be.

 

Must be a challenging experience, what with the hold of the breath underwater and the candles going out if submerged. Ah, why not? I'd give it a shot

 

I really enjoy giving but I have to say the way I least like is with her laying on the bed and and me on the bed. My neck doesn't bend good enough for full access.
We rarely do it this way but I like regular 69 since it gives me full access and affords deeper penetration

 

Here's a really comfortable position for cunnilingus:

Both lie on your sides head to tail facing each other (think 69 on your sides).
Each bend your lower legs towards your partner, and rest your head on the other's thigh (the one closest to the bed).

At one end, he can perform cunnilingus, she places her upper thigh over his head and keeps him there. (optional: tie or handcuff his wrists together behind her waist.)

At the other end, she can rest her head on his lower thigh, (in comfort, he keeps his other leg back out of the way) and has the choice of just watching him strain in his cage, performing oral, stimulating his anus, giving a ruined orgasm, teasing/squeezing/torturing balls, ... (did I say comfortable?)

 

On a Sunday morning in bed and i'm under the duvet.

 

our favourite position and the one my mistress likes best , is me laying on my back and her on top straddling my head , although she does find this tiring for prolonged sessions of worship , our next best and for long sessions is her laying on the bed and me kneeling on the floor , with her legs over my shoulders , but to be totally honest any position is fine with me as its one of my favourite ways to please her

 

Lately, She prefers me to lay on my side. She puts one leg over my shoulder, with Her other legs laid straight out. i nestle my face in Her pussy, basically sideways. I lay my head on a pillow (She allows me some comfort!). i lovingly gave her four orgasms in a row on each of the last two days. Previously, i normally knelt on the floor with Her legs over my shoulder. But She really loves this "new" position.....

 

Definitely her sitting on my face. I support her by placing my hands on her hips and lower back. I can also reach up and find other things to play with. It's such a beautiful point of view.

 

Place a flat pillow under her buttocks. This gives you better access to her yoni and also stretches her abdomen, increasing the sensations she feels when you caress her there. If she is strong enough a larger pillow also gives you the option to lick her lower than her yoni.

One word of caution though, if you are going to lick her anus and then lick her yoni, make sure she is spotlessly clean. We only ever do this after a thorough wash in the shower.

 

That is how I see it!

 

We usually do it with her on the edge of the bed, me kneeling between her legs, which are dropped over my shoulders. I continue until she tells me to stop, which is usually after an orgasm. She actually thinks it's too intense after a really good orgasm, and doesn't want anymore stimulation for awhile.

 

High praise indeed.. If it doesn't pleeeease send me yours which would probably be best... my current table is a drop leaf job and not up to the task. Besides I do not think my neighbours are ready for someone with your looks walking amongst them.

 

Regardless of time, place or position, we've always looked upon cunnilingus as worshipping the Goddess at the altar of the Feminine Divine.

 

Very poetic, and who is The "we" @frankie teardrop