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    hi I'm now in chastity and my wife agreed to long term but would like to move this on to cuckold - can anyone please give me ideas - thanks
     
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    Welcome to the site @DarrenL I am sure there may well be some here who can help you. The members here are very friendly and happy to help

    Have a look around, try the search facility as that may well bring up lots for you and your wife to consider.

    How long since you started using chastity? And what device do you have?
     
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    thank you - been playing at it for 8 years but now we have agreed more long term and as a result have ordered a MM Jailbird - I have a holytrainer at the moment
     
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    Yes, do not think it will be like you see in porn videos. It is a minefield with more mines than fields. You can spent 6 months or more to find someone who will not just tell you what you want to hear so he can have free sex with your wife. Even more difficult to find someone who understands the cuckold fetish. Then there are STDs to worry about, even with a condom. You will want a medical report of no STD's that is no longer than 1-2 weeks old because you are dealing with men who have sex with strangers on a regular basis.

    Some bulls may think that your wife is now their girlfriend and buy her. I came home once and found a guy waiting around for my cuckoldress. Then my cuckoldress started to see a guy I told her to see until I caught her and kicked her out. None of our friends into this are still married due to their lifestyle. Try to find a long married cuckold couple. In real life they are as rare as hen's teeth. It can work. I was a cuckold when I was 19 and then became not a bull, but a lover to a married women and cuckolded her husband for 25 years up to a few years ago. I also cuckolded a few other husbands for much shorter time periods. The odd think is that many of the wives end up resenting their husbands for not loving them enough to not want them to have sex with other men.

    Just make sure you two are ready for this because the majority or what you read online is just horny guys living their sex lives on the internet. While cuckolding does happen, most of what you see on the internet is not real. The women and men you see in porn are paid to do what they do. Even the amateur stuff unless your wife is pierced and has tattoos all over her as the so called amateurs are where the husband is shown filming his wife but who is filming him??

    Sorry for all the warning but in your fantasy you do not experience anything but arousal. In real life there will be jealousy and it is not uncommon for one or both of you to regret it at some point. A few of the wives I was with asked me if they could live with me if they left their husbands. Do not forget that your wife will agree to do it because she feels that there is something lacking in your marriage. I got my wife to cuckold me once. I was not aroused or jealous watching her and she hated it and regrets doing it to this day, 40 years later. We lost all of our cuckolding married couples when the wife found someone better than her husband in all ways. Rules and trust be damned when emotions come into play. So think with your big head and not your little head. Although I have seen it work, it fails more than it works.

    Best thing to do is go to one of the sex webcam sites and have your wife strip and masturbate to a guy jerking off to her. Then see how you both feel about it. I once had a cuck who wanted to watch his wife the first time and he freaked as soon as the sex began. In his fantasy it all went as he wanted it to and the bull was faceless and disappeared afterwards. Your wife will not forget them. I guarantee that. The cuck of 25 years was married to a cuckoldress once before. She left him for one of the lovers she had while cuckolding him.

    So go in with eyes wide open. I am 65 and not a young man or kid who is going to tell you to do it just like everyone else does following the same script. Real life is not like that. Things don't go as planned. The odds of your wife finding a guy in a club or bar who has a big cock and is very good at sex is not that great. That is the stuff or porn stories and videos. It can take a long time to find a safe and disease free guy that your wife likes. Meet with him a few times in a coffee shop more than once. Many men can hide their true nature on a date or two but after that you will see glimpses of their true stuff. For instance with my wife. We knew the guy for a long time. He was into swinging and a friend of my wife and yet he was very rough with her and left her bruised. He spent all of 15 minutes pounding into her and squeezing her breast before he came and my wife did not have an orgasm at all. Did not go as we thought it would in our fantasy discussions so be prepared for that.

    Also be prepared for guys showing up drunk or stoned. Some show up smelly. Some will not be able to get it up and most will not want the cuck there. Non professional bulls will definitely not want the husband there. Actually your best bet is to pay a professional bull who understands the cuckold dynamic. Discuss with him expectations and limits and then you will have a great time. Leave it to chance and it is dangerous and may not work out as you planned.

    Do not look for guys on Craig's list or free websites. That is the stuff of fiction stories. Try the pain membership swinger websites. You will find guys there that have done this before and some can even give you references. Do not be surprised how long it takes to find someone. Never let them know your last name or address and home phone number. Get a burner email address and cell phone and use that. Some of these guys may want to see your wife again. You want it so that once it is over with, they cannot trace you. Needless to say, arrange the cuckolding in a motel with a guy you have meet a few times. If your wife is going to pick someone up at a bar or club, have her ask the guy for his driver's license and call you up to give you it and where she is. Ask her to call back at certain interval to make sure she is OK.

    Be safe and sorry that I am not giving you all the BS that is out there in fantasy land. You can do this if you do it based on reality and not the popular fantasy everyone seems to want to follow. Make up your own fantasy rather than borrow someone else's. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    @Vinny, we should copy and paste that into every wannabe cuckold post we ever get on this forum. Absolutely brilliant post.
     
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    Vinny, it seems like you know what you're talking about. Maybe just a little bit...ha!
    Definitely food for thought and for most of those reasons why I don't think I'd ever want to actually go through with my cuckold fantasy.
    Thanks for the head check.
     
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    Should be made a sticky !!! far too much fantasy on this subject I could think of nothing worse after nearly 27 years married !!!
     
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    Wish I can correct all the errors though. I type very fast and often late at night after I have taken my medication. I think of words and type others. On other sites I can go back with a clear head and edit them. 3 minutes is not enough time, especially for the long posts I write. :) It is funny how so many guys want to watch or have their wives have sex with other men based on what they read on the internet. Yet, none of them have ever met a cuckold in real life. Still they assume that it is commonplace. Most of the real accounts of cuckolding are actually MMF threesomes. Perhaps if your wife has tats and piercing plus like to wear high heels in bed during sex, she is a cuckoldress.
     
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    Yes @Vinny
    I fully agree, 3 minutes is too little time, we should have more time. @Administrator : maybe something to consider Jens?
    Regarding the sucject: I admit to fantasize about the cuckold scenario myself, but I fear it at the same time because I would not like the love of my life since 30 years disappear from my life because of it.. so I just keep it as a fantasy. and since I'm in 24/7 chastitity it is not even an "jerk" fantasy anymore. those days are over..:p
     
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