Oh my, only in my dreams would that happen to me. What a turn on!! I bet you were lovely. I definitely wouldn't use a safe word either, but my cage would be mighty tight. Did you have to go home like that? The closest to forced for me, was when my wife threw out all of my male underwear and required me to wear only panties. I think she knew I wasn't going to put up an argument, but it did come as a surprise.