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What would you do if I handed over keys to you

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    #26 bondinchas, Apr 21, 2018
    You're going to appreciate having a wife who is both willing and understands the benefits and methods of being a keyholder. She seems to have taken to the lifestyle very positively.
    The more you understand how it all works, the benefits of being denied orgasm and devoting yourself to your wife, the better it gets.
    Do let her set the pace though, now that you've allowed her to take control, leave her to make the suggestions and decisions, and you'll both grow and benefit from the experience.
     
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    #27 Juan., Apr 22, 2018
    You should keep talking to her and if you want to go along a good amount of time you should be sincere and express your feelings, trust me, i were the one who warned you about loosing your penis or your wife and now she had told you that and confirmed my thougths

    But be careful about what and how you say because it is a slippery path, both had agreed that she make the rules so use the brain to address your needs and or refusals. You may think you will never need to do that but power is like money, you never has to much, she will want more and will told you to do things that you really dont want to so start thinking how you will solve that because it will happen

    And keep telling us, i am interested about it
     
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    Panda2010 There's a fine line between pleasure and pain

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    #28 Panda2010, Apr 23, 2018
    Well your wife has certainly taken this and run with it. Try not to focus too much on the possibility (probability??) that you won't be unlocked (easier said than done). Good luck with your adventure.
     
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    #29 Doczilla421, Apr 23, 2018
    Well last night I fulfilled one of my Queens fantasies. She had multiple orgasms and the last one she told me she almost passed out. I have never heard her scream with delight like she did. I was quite proud of myself. After a few minutes she told me to lay on the bed, where she proceeded to tie me up spread eagle like. She removed her cage from my genitals and started playing with them. She broke out her vibrator and started to work on me. I was really enjoying it but was trying not to orgasm because she hadn't said I could. She brought me to the edge 6 times and then on the 7th she said let it go. Boy did it!! I dont think I have ever had an orgasm like that. I almost started to cry, it felt so good.
    When she finished me off she covered it with a towel and left the room leaving me tied up. She came back about an hour later, I think, with a smile on her face. She took her cage and cleaned it then cleaned me up. She proceeded to lock her cage back on me and said, after what happened in here tonight just showed me that you definitely need to be locked up all the time. This was the best sex that we have had in years. So this will be permanent from now on. It will be removed only for cleaning and if I want it. Dont think that just because you got to cum tonight that, that will be the normal for you. Dumb me of course asked when the next time might be. Her response was, well lets see you had one 2 months ago and the one tonight, it will be a while I guess depends on my moods. Maybe January. The look on my face probably provoked her next statement. Dont ever ask me that question again or you may never have another one. I need to make sure to bite my tounge if that ever pops into my mind. I hope I can make it that long. Hopefully I will please her again like I did and she will have mercy on me and give me release sooner. Wish me luck
     
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    #30 Panda2010, Apr 24, 2018
    Wow that is a great example of the benefits that both partners can get from locking the guy up. Very well done to you both:strong:. I hope you get to please your wife like that on a regular basis, even if you aren't allowed out :lockkey:.

    But yeah, biting your tongue seems like a very good idea. She is in charge and she will decide if and when anything happens. Asking doesn't change that, and and it sounds like asking will be counterproductive. :eek:
     
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    #31 Doczilla421, May 3, 2018
    Ok my wife just did something that has totally taken me by surprise.
    Today she did her usual, locking me down and cleaning my cage. Im not allowed to clean it myself and she dosent trust me to let her put it back on unless Im locked to the bed.
    Well she did the cleaning and I thought she was putting it back on when I felt a strap tighten around my penis and I heard a lock snap shut. I said what was that and she said dont worry about it. Then I felt her put my cage back on and locked it.
    She released me and I got up looked down and saw a neon orange strap around my package just behind my ring on my cage.
    Before I could protest I felt a shock and I screamed out.
    My wonderful wife had bought a dog shock collar and locked it to my package. She proceeded to explain that this was easier for her to punish me when needed because now all she had to do was push a button to get my attention.
    Since we started this journey, last Nov 15th she has come out of her shell and taken over. I love she has taken the initiative to keep me locked up. It has improved our marriage by leaps and bounds but Im afraid of what else she will come up with...lol
     
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    #32 demale, May 3, 2018
    Exactly so. Masturbation is a supreme insult to your wife and should be stopped in whatever way she desires. Were I she, I would keep you caged indefinitely. I am not allowed to touch my penis, either. All of my orgasms come anally and will as long as I am married to my wife, who controls all aspects of our marriage, as she is well-entitled to. Good luck.
     
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    #33 Doczilla421, May 3, 2018
    She has already told me that her cage is permanent. It hasnt been off unless she wants it off or she cleans it, then its right back on.
     
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    #34 Beach-bum, May 3, 2018
    Good luck hope you please her soon
     
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    #35 Doczilla421, May 27, 2018
    Actually since that night she has had several more servicing, and I have had nothing in return. Only thing is that Im definitely locked up permanently. I havent been unlocked since that night, other than a cleaning.
     
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    #36 Rectrix, May 28, 2018
    Very fulfilling to read your journey on this thread. Congratulations on your submission and on how you are pleasing your wife and improving your marriage. Your thread focuses on the sexual -- have you noticed improvements in the emotional and intimate aspects of your marriage, in your service to her and your home life?
     
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    #37 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 28, 2018
    On my humble opinion, you indirectly asked your wife to keep you locked to stop you masturbating and she appears to be doing a very good job of complying with your request.
    I kind of disagree with others here about talking to your wife about being unlocked. That always seems like toppping from the bottom and putting you in charge. Talk to her by all means but don't ask to be unlocked. You have to earn that. Tell her how you miss making love to her, assuming you actually want out sometime in the future and make sure you don't have porn on your computer or hidden away in drawers and cupboards. Make sure She is the sole object of your desires and that She knows it.

    As everyone said around here, careful what you wish for.
     
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    #38 demale, May 28, 2018
    If you continue trying to top from the bottom you deserve to be locked up permanently. Your wife is in charge of your penis, as you requested. The topic ends there.
     
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    #39 Doczilla421, May 28, 2018
    I first locked it on to save our marriage . I would be masturbating all the time and not saving it for her. That's why I first locked it on. It seemed the only way to stop me. I was thinking that she would only keep me locked for a few days at the most, but again I was under estimating her resolve. She never allows it off , and it only comes off to be cleaned and then she locks it right back on. When she does take it off I'm tied down to the bed, so I cant interfere with her locking it back on. I am getting use to this but its not what I wanted.
    It was never my intention to live in a cage but thats the way It's turning out. She made it very clear that this was going to be my new normal when she told me to get use to this.
    I guess that in a way it has saved my marriage. I'm always trying to please her now where as before I didn't. I'm more concerned with her happiness and pleasure over mine. After 6 + months in a cage has a way of changing you. I also found that I can love her even more.
     
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    #40 Rectrix, May 28, 2018
    Look at what you wrote: You wanted to save your marriage. Did you think she could want less? Of course she's "resolve[d]." And you say it has saved your marriage and that you now try to please her and are concerned with her happiness. *Of course* she doesn't want to take it off. And you shouldn't either, since nothing is more important than your marriage and your wife's happiness. You have stopped masturbating and have grown up and become a man. Good for you. And good for her!
     
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    #41 Doczilla421, May 28, 2018
    Its a work in process
     
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    #42 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 28, 2018
    I think there's some really admirable things going on here, and your possibly one of the few who didn't actually want chastity as part of their submissive ness.
    Reading between the lines, your wife has trust issues and is possibly still feeling hurt, and if she's invested in a dog shock collar she may still be nursing her wrath. Can you put hand on heart and say that you are now the nearly prefect man who doesn't need to be punished? I can't, actually I'm a bit of a brat unless I'm caged, and even then I still inclined to misbehave
     
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    #43 Doczilla421, May 28, 2018
    No Im definitely not the perfect man. The punishments are very much deserved. As far as being locked up, no its not what I wanted, but its what was needed. 13 years of playing with myself and not her is totally inexcusable . As long as this is what she wants now, then this is how it will be. The shock collar is a tool she is using to control my cussing as well as my attitude. She likes to remind me that I have been locked up for a little over 6 months compared to the 13 years prior when I was playing with myself. In her beautiful little head I still have 12 in a half years to go before the slate is even. Then she will decide where we go from there.
     
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    #44 Rectrix, May 28, 2018
    You can't always get what you want
    But if you try sometime
    You just might find
    You get what you need.
     
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    #45 Doczilla421, May 28, 2018
    Thanks a lot...lol
     
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    #46 Doczilla421, May 28, 2018
    Everything has improved , I cant deny it. I look forward to being with her and doing things together.
    Knowing myself, if she does ever remove it, I might go back to my old ways. I dont want that, ever again
     
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