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    #1 Breathe, May 23, 2018
    Do any of the couples here find enjoyment in playing or socializing with other couples living the chaste lifestyle? If you've never done it, have you ever thought about it?

    I am curious about the mechanics therein... Many fun ideas on the horizon as of late. :)
     
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    #2 Gigaman, May 23, 2018
    Sorry but I cannot answer your question because we have not played with any other couples. But I am waiting anxiously to see what some of the answers are going to be.
     
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    #3 Chaste J., May 23, 2018
    Oo er! Do you mean in a swinging sort of way? I don't think we would want to be that adventurous! My thoughts are that in our case at least its to personal and private to share with others. Although I have no problems and indeed enjoy posting our adventures and sharing my feelings with people in an anonymous way via our fantastic forum! I guess that in most ways we still lead a fairly vanilla life and my chastity is our fun little secret! I'm quite intrigued to see what responses your thread provokes. There are so many different ways people "do chastity".
     
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    #4 Breathe, May 23, 2018
    Not necessarily, although I'm sure that could appeal to some. Because yes, you're right: there are likely countless ways of living this life! Interested to see what comes up as well. :)
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #5 Nicoftime, May 23, 2018
    Lol a swingers chastity hookup...is that where you swap partners and not have sex with them?!:D
     
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    #6 Breathe, May 23, 2018
    Saddest. Personal. Ever. :D

    Makes Me wonder, though... perhaps KHs swing 'away' from their locked ones and play with each other while the caged ones watch, still locked away? All manner of possibilities here. ;)
     
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    #7 Penney, May 23, 2018
    We are fairly new to chastity, but not to a FLM. We have never personally met another couple, but it would be fun to spend some time with another couple or two. Mistress' could share stories and insights, and I bet we locked up hubs would quite enjoy waiting on them.
     
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    #8 Nicoftime, May 23, 2018
    Everyone rushing to get the doors, pull out chairs, pick up checks and going to get drinks...better bring my sneakers!

    I think it would be fun, and have looked around locally (passively) for a place similar couples may congregate. I will say that it also would be a bit nerve wracking ...god knows what new things someone might tell her about that she thinks is a good idea!
     
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    #9 Breathe, May 23, 2018
    @Allen1987, I'm always thinking of something... :rolleyes: Isn't that right, @_and_smile?

    @Penney and @Nicoftime, those types of scenarios are pretty appealing to Me! I think it'd be great fun to have a social gathering at setting much like the feel here at CM, where we can interact and enjoy each other in real time. And yeah, I'm sure all sorts of devilish ideas could be exchanged among Keyholders at such an event. :D

    That said, this thread's discussion isn't limited to strictly 'platonic' exchanges. Keep the thoughts coming, everyone. :)
     
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    #10 Chaste J., May 23, 2018
    I suppose all the locked blokes could discuss the merits of different chastity cages and strap on harnesses! Stop it!!
     
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    #11 _and_smile, May 23, 2018
    The brain of a scientist. It never turns off. @Breathe hardly sleeps because She can't turn that thing off. I'm certain of one thing at all times...

    Things never get boring.
     
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    #12 Breathe, May 23, 2018
    As @_and_smile aptly put, I can't. :D Wouldn't want to, anyway.

    Suitable cages and exciting strap-ons are healthy topics of discussion; I don't see the problem here. :rolleyes:

    Glad you concur, sweetheart. :kiss:
     
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    #13 BullandMistress, May 23, 2018
    We have hung out with a couple that we thought was pretty vanilla and found out that they are into chastity accidentally. After a few drinks the topic of sex came up. My wife was talking about how we were averaging 4-5 times a week, and the other wife laughed and said her husband doesn't get it 4 or 5 times a year. Then she revealed to us that he has a masturbation problem and couldn't get it up since he played with himself too much. So she controls that part of their life now, but she is never in the mood for it, so he gets denied.
     
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    #14 Kepoke, May 23, 2018
    I would love to play with another couple that uses chastity! Maybe wife swap and have each other's wives peg the other's husband/partner :D

    That would be hot!
     
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    #15 Chaste J., May 23, 2018
    AAAGH! :eek:
     
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    #16 PouchPantyLover, May 23, 2018
    Never, my wife is very private about it. She actually agreed to have an account created for her on CM when we first started. She came on and read some stuff, but had no interest in participating. On the other hand she's on Facebook a lot and I can't stand it for the most part.

    I remember @Mandynjack talking about going to the Hedonism resort in one of her posts. I always thought that would be fun. To go on a vacation to a place like that where I could be openly exposed as a locked male and she would feel free to explore some on her own.

    I also have the common fantasy of serving her and her friends drinks in a sissy maid costume and being forced to show off the cage and suffer humiliation. This is not practical though and I know it would never happen. Most of her friends are parents of kids that are friends with our kids. Not too many sleep overs happening after that.

    I don't have as much interest in a "friends in chastity" type relationship as I feel like I get that here.
     
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    #17 LockedPom, May 24, 2018
    We go BDSM swingers nights. I get spanked by many ladies, she gets fucked by lots of men. Everyone’s happy!
     
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    #18 Charleston, May 24, 2018
    We know several couples in alt life styles just not the chaste life. That might be tricky to find. I am sure they are out there. Sounds like it could be fun though.
     
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    #19 tqbartleby, May 24, 2018
    I fantasize, but my wife is too private to want to bring anyone else into our intimate sphere.

    One fantasy that could conceivably come true would be if a friend of hers volunteered the information that she kept her man in chastity. My wife might then share our situation and one thing could lead to another. Highly unlikely. But a man can dream.
     
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    #20 Breathe, May 24, 2018
    This happened in reverse, for Me. I told a dear friend about us after she asked about My key. A wildly enjoyable and upbeat conversation ensued with many questions from her. We have not, and likely will never, play together in that capacity but the conversation was obviously stimulating for us both.

    She mentioned wanting to try it herself, but highly doubted her husband would agree...

    Desires like this swirl all around, in some surprising places at times. :D
     
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    #21 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 24, 2018
    We've never met any other couple who are into chastity or any other kink for that matter. I do have an inclination to see another locked cock (real life, not photos) as well as wanting others to see mine (that's the exhibitionist in me). Having two KeyMistresses around sharing their ideas and cooking up more sounds like fun
     
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    #22 Jblocked, May 24, 2018
    Might be fun to have dinner with a couple
     
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    #23 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 24, 2018
    OK, who's up for dinner at chez Disc. BF tonight?
     
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    #24 Queensbitch, May 24, 2018
    So far we have never met another couple that uses chastity.
    A few rallies has definitely showed many people that it is out there as an option tho
     
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    #25 Mr M, May 24, 2018
    I have had three almost brushes with couples play. One, when we first started my KH found a local mentor here on the mansion. They met up several times and communicated about the twisted things they did to each of us. It was short lived and the 4 of us never got together as talked about. Life just happened. Second is ClubFEM. Recently, We looked into joining the local Orlando chapter, but still are waiting for the right timing. Lastly, we are very good friend with a swinging couple who enjoy having a 2nd female. We are aware of there openness although they don’t know I am locked. My KH is angling to see how it could unfold. Obviously my eyes, hands and mouth may be involved, but really have no idea.

    It seems like there are possibilities, but connecting to them seems more difficult than described...
     
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