Hi, 33 male, new here, had a chastity fetish for a while and am trying to get into it. I find the idea very enticing, but I’m sure many have been there... It starts easy at first, but the hormones keep building up, slowly but surely, and in some time (for me, usually mere days) eventually I get an insane, uncontrollable urge to release, that clouds judgement and overrides any willpower or reasoning I have. And since I don’t have a KH, I just can’t stop myself (short term measures like freezing keys don’t work, since the urge doesn’t go away long enough for me to get them, and I need to keep access to keys on short notice for any legitimate emergencies). So I can never stay locked long enough to truly get into the chaste mindset. Of course, I regret releasing as soon as I do, but by then it’s too late. Instead of figuring more secure ways to store keys, I understand that willpower is an essential component of chastity, as much, or more, than the cage itself. So I wonder, how do the rest of you cope, whether with or without a KH? Breathing exercises? Cold showers? Abdominal flexes? Mental work? Distraction? Peer counseling? Something that can actually last long enough to get over the urge to release, and be able to sleep through the night. For those with a KH, how does she or he help stay locked in ways other than physically preventing access to the key? Thanks!