Controlling my husband at home while he's an employee of mine too.

Is she hirering more caged males with the company might help

 

I would suggest a Neosteel belt

 

You are on the right way

 

@L-u-c-y -- it seems some posts are missing here, I saw them on my news feed?

 

that is what some of us do.....cooperate

 

Your situation does raise some interesting things to think upon.
If you guy really did not want to be locked he would not continue to be the cost being perhaps his job and relationship would probably not be sufficent deterrent so whether he admits it or not think he likes the current status quo and his ability to ... voice his not total compliance.

Th evast majority of us that are locked full time want this ...that's pretty bovious I think.
But would I still want it if there was some sense of being forced.
Would such a sense make things better for me or not?
At the moment I am thinking it would as we very slowly exploring or perhaps developing the sometimes submissive endencies I have.

Though I am not sure any sense of forced could be created especially as we live on seperate continents.

 

i am not being forced, i am excited that my gf has a sexual fantasy it is not my fantasy but as @Love seeing him locked said her man "is cooperating" so am I

 

Your first post after lock up was 3 weeks in. How did that first day go when he saw the device and understood what you were asking. Were there complaints or problems in the first weeks after? What are your teasing comments to your employee husband? How submissive has he gotten?

 

Perfect, he agreed because he knew he had to do something about the way his masturbation addiction was affecting your sexual satisfaction and your marriage. Praise that "more loving and compassionate" husband and the way he's pleasured you. When you permit him to have his way with you -- but makes he goes slow, draw it out -- and he has that explosive memorable orgasm he hasn't felt in years, I expect he'll be willing to give it another "honest fair chance."

 

Keep us posted. Every detail is interesting,, especially if you move toward a dom/sub relationship. The journey will be very interesting.

 

You are on the right path in my opinion. Dominant women need to flex their domination. He will soon be living the new dynamics.

 

I do have the exactly the opposite.... It works fine... I´m 100% sub at home and control company... But she punishes me for some decisions.. But we only talk about sexual stuff out the company... If you mix both things you may end up spoiling both.. That is my advice...

 

So based on the date, he has been released and should be locked up again. How did it go. What happened and what was said when he needed to go back in? Will you start on the dom/sub relationship soon?

 

What an exciting thread!

 

Do you have hubby locked back up yet

 

@Love seeing him locked -- if you're up for sharing it feels like time for an update on how things have an going.

 

I'm glad to hear that things are working out for you. It is especially nice to hear about couples who use chastity for control rather than denial as not everyone enjoys the latter and more positive examples of that are always helpful.

 

masturbating is so fun, err was so fun

 

I'm so happy to hear that you've resolved his masturbation problem and that he's now "always in the game." But your comment that "I'm having a hard time giving up PIV" strikes me as off-base. You're not supposed to give up PIV -- indeed the whole point of his chastity is so that he can provide the PIV you want when you want it. It's perfectly acceptable for you to "lie with him" in the biblical sense every day if you want to -- the point here is that you're desires be satisfied. There is no rule that he must not cum for X days, or whatever. The only rule is that you control the erections and the emissions.

That's fine too -- it's not required that you dominate him or make his a sub or anything else. Most of us do that, but it's not a requirement. For me, it's part of what I need out of chastity. For you, it doesn't have to be. If all you want is erections on demand then that's all that you have to achieve.

He's a masturbator. To me, that's a syndrome or a disease like alcoholism. You can use the chastity cage to aid in his "recovery" but he will always be a masturbator. You're right not to trust him, leaving him unlocked when you're not there would be like telling an alcoholic to meet you in a bar. In our situation we're moving towards this "locked when away from her, unlocked when with her" concept too, after a couple of years of 24/7.