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I think its entirely dependent upon different relationship dynamics and even the individual perceptions of those in that relationship.

 

I think it does in that moment (0:

 

There are certain things that have social ramifications, and if one partner has that over the other, it would be hard to not be submissive or at least lose some relationship leverage.

Pegging would certainly fall into that category. Unless of course you are very openly comfortable with yourself, society, and how everyone views you.

Clean up is another act of submission that has social implications, as well as any cross dressing.

Any of those activities is something deemed “un manly” and thus submissive in nature. Her physically penetrating you, her taking you, is about as submissive an act there is.

 

I would see acceptance of any penetrative act, like pegging or blow jobs, as a submissive act. I also think the more you do them, the more willing you are to accept being dominated.

 

Yes. A man, especially a chaste man, who is pegged by his wife can never claim to be an alpha male, they both know he is submissive.

 

It seems to me that being pegged is seen as submissive because it essentialy involves being penetrated. However, there are quite a number of CM members on here who claim to be in a FLR, but in the same breath say they penetrate their KHs via PIV.

 

if that's the way your submissiveness manifests itself, then yes.

Otherwise no.

Different strokes and all that.

 

Good question.

For me I love being pegged and I guess at the time I feel more submissive but mostly as my wife feels more dominant as the penetratee, she enjoys the power swap.

That said out of the bedroom we go back to life as normal with me taking the more masculine role, even when I’m locked up. please don’t think I’m a typical Alpha Male, I cook, clean, pay the bills, spoil my wife, help with the kids and massage her twice a week (I trained as a masseuse just for her).

Maybe the fact we switch means I never truly feel submissive all the time.

 

This is a very new area of activity for Miss A and me. We are still in the early days of training. It is for her pleasure, and at her request.

 

I to am not permitted piv sex and it has also been years since I had it, and I am also not allowed to give her oral ether. I find being pegged or toyed with a submissive act, and my madam finds it a very dominant act to perform.

 

Wow no PIV or oral, I’d struggle with that, that said a good pegging or being toyed with is fun so not all bad. Sounds like for you being pegged does make you more submissive in your relationship. Looks like you enjoy it too (0:

 

I still get PIV.
Recently we have rediscovered pegging and my wife has learned she can have extremely powerful orgasms from having a small vibe in her while pegging me. occasionally she will have me unlocked and stroke me after she has had a few of her own. OMG those are some intense orgasms that end up leaving me gasping for breath along with her.

 

I think I need more pegging, correction I need to start being pegged lol

 

I learn something new here every day.

 

I have a robust strap on harness and suitable dildo at her disposal. Trouble is she doesn't know about it yet. Not sure what to do with it now as I ve learned my lesson on being suggestive and I feel I end up leading the way when it's not for me to do so. In fact I've loads more kinky toys now tucked away just in case.