Control in permanent chastity

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    I get regular caning to keep me focused and now we are trying for permanent chastity it’s “behave or I’ll unlock you” lol
     
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    I think it is you who is living in a fantasy. My slave has achieved his ultimate goal, of surrendering everything to me and has even entered an almost "enlightened" state of being. Assumptions are the mother of all fuck-ups. Just because other subs on here write stuff like this, doesn't mean it's not their true lived experience.
     
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    Excellent and totally correct.
     
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    Jeez. A site dedicated to practitioners of chastity, populated by a few who call others here fantasists because they have a more extreme situation than them.

    You obviously have no real idea of the breadth and depth of the spectrum of Power Exchange relationships engaged in by people in the real world.
     
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    You'll never have your own fantasies because you don't have nearly enough imagination or breadth of mind.
     
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    Nicole - to be fair, I'm only in chastity for between 5-10 days max.

    All the other fem domme stuff happens to me - Inc pictures taken to ensure my compliance.

    My fantasy ended the moment Mistress realised she had me over a barrel.
     
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    We don't do physical punishment. Not being critical, it's just not for us. She still controls me by threatening to Unlock me and quit playing! I love being owned by her so much, I'll do pretty much anything/everything she says, LOL. Actually, she loves owning me, and I wonder if she'd really be willing to go back to vanilla. Somehow I doubt it, but I don't want to find out!
     
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    No criticism taken. Everyone is different. That's why I learn from others on this thread. I dont know anyone who has been able to go back to vanilla after opening the Pandora box that is D/s
     
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    Well, before YOU could go back to vanilla, you might need to saw off that cage ;-)
     
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    LOL-You're right! She might not give me the keys back even if I asked.
     
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    JaySaysYes I identify as someone that is always right

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    Hmmm, predicting the future. Congrats.
     
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    Every single day. Its called intelligence.
    Get out of my post if you've got nothing but negativity to bring to it!!
     
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    JaySaysYes I identify as someone that is always right

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    It's called delusion.
     
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    That's SO FUNNY!!!
     
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    Why do you feel the need to call out posts for your perception of fantasy?? If you think it's false, close it and move on. This is a community, full of all sorts of likes, kinks and lifestyles. Sure, I am positive some are false/fantasy but so what? If you were out at a bar and overheard a conversation that you thought was fantastical, would you barge in and call them out or would you just move away from the conversation?? Lighten up man, seriously
     
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    This is not a conversation in a bar and it has nothing to do with that scenario. I've seen better thought out straw men.

    This place is entertainment, it's more akin to stand up comedy than a private conversation.
     
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    Whether you like my analogy or not is immaterial, the fact is you think of yourself as some sort of freedom fighter when you just come off as a petty little child. You don't believe something, move on!!
     
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    JaySaysYes I identify as someone that is always right

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    I didn't dislike your analogy, it's just that it's a common one used when the echo chamber of BS is disturbed.

    It's a straw man argument.

    Preposterous! You have no idea what I think of myself, LOL.
     
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    Call it what you will, it is valid and not the point.....You don't believe something, move on, it is that simple, really, it is that simple.
     
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    No, it's not that simple.

    Thank goodness you have no authority, little dictator, lol.
     
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    Lol? You're a child troll and I'm done with you
     
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    I’m def not in permanent chastity but I can go and enjoy long stretches (for me) with out a release. What’s always bugged me is when she denied me being allowed to pleasure her. There have been times in the last 6 years where she wouldn’t want any attention from me until she was ready to unlock me. Sometimes it would be 2 or 3 weeks and I hated being 100% denied everything. I would think that for those in true permanent chastity, their greatest punishment would be not being allowed to pleasure their key holder. Therefore the key holder would still retain control as us chaste still want that sexual outlet as it’s the only sexual outlet.
     
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    When i was first caged I asked my Queen how long it would be before I'd be allowed an orgasm. She said never , I won't ever be getting another one .
    That was a huge turn on, that she was taking total control of me.. As it turned out my cage rubbed quite a bit when new and I was allowed to remove it .
    We dont live together and I went home and J/O .
    Since those years ago I have been caged off and on. I find it extremely sexy to be locked up and cleaning her house naked as she calls me her sissy bitch .
    I love the long periods of being caged , but as they say ,life gets in the way. The other day a friend came and we went swimming , since my cage would stand out under my trunks , my Queen let me remove it . If I complain that it's hurting I get a few days without it ,and take full advantage of it , but my inner desire is to be fully caged until the day i die . i find the idea so arousing ,to be horny and can do nothing about it because my Queen has full control of my cock and balls
     
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